2006-06-15 19:49:22 · 19 answers · asked by sexygal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say.....a little bit of gentle self-exploration. Everyone is different, but try a combination of things and see what works for you.
Unless you are very uninhibited (in which case, you probably wouldn't be asking this question!) you will need to get into a certain mind set to experience orgasm. It might sound strange, but first of all, you need to give yourself permission to do it!
Next, you need to feel very relaxed, and to be somewhere where you won't be disturbed.
Next, you need to get into a sexy frame of mind. You probably already have a sexual fantasy...so close your eyes and imagine it happening...
If you don't have a sexual fantasy, try reading an erotic story by Anais Nin...or look at some sexy pictures.....
My advice about clitoral vibrators is - they are wonderful, but I think it is better to just use your hands the first few times. For a young woman who hasn't yet experienced orgasm, I think it's best to experiment and find what works for you first. A lot of young women are very sensitive and anything too vigorous is too much to start with! (But they are great to use later)
Start by gently stroking yourself whereever it feels good. If you can, let yourslef make noises, "Mmmm mmmm mmm" etc, as this is great for helping you get in the mood. (But make sure you can't be overheard because everyone will know you are having a great time and they will be jealous!!)
As you explore you will encounter your clit and G spot, and you can practise as much as you want!
Then when you are emotionally ready, you can teach the right boyfriend how to do it with you.
Don't worry if it doesn't happen the first few times, just enjoy the experience of pleasure.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-15 20:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that an orgasm for women starts in their mind and not so much by external stimulation ..... experience and time will help along with learning to relax and simply accept and love your self. But the best option, I gather, is to be with a man who you simply love with all of your heart.
2006-06-15 22:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women actually stop before it is time. Just remember RELAX and keep going until you reach the peak...RELAX
2006-06-15 20:24:45
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Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina. Tell me if it works.
2006-06-16 21:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically an orgasm is caused by stimulation of a certain part of your body, if you need any help then let me know
2006-06-15 20:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F**ck the man you really love you can get two orgasm at once.
2006-06-15 19:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AN ORGASM IS THE DESTINATION ENJOY THE TRIP GETTING THERE, AND THEN RETURN HOME DO NOT STAY OVER THERE. IT IS NOT A THING IT IS THE CONSEQUENCE OF THINGS. DO NOT RUSH INTO IT.
2006-06-15 20:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by razorraul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the new platnium rampant rabbit £45 from ann summers
its ace your boyfriend will become very jealous of it.
2006-06-21 23:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by suzzycarter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a magazine article about that once that I took from a doctor's waiting room, but I seem to have misplaced it. It would be nice to know, wouldn't it?
2006-06-15 19:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Norgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a little alone time with me
I'll get her done
2006-06-15 19:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋