Ladies and Gentlemen, I ask this question to get a fair perspective from both male and female alike on opinions. If a female is sleeping with a male, and yet he is persistent in watching, saving, and acting upon internet porno, is that right or fair to the lady he is with? (it is all kinds of porno, not just one fetish)
2006-06-15 19:45:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes ma'am! If he doesn't think the (real) woman if front of him is good enough, he should be alone (as in single) with his pr0n and ****.
Marriage is special. You're supposed to devoted to your wife, not fantasizing about some broad in a mag or on the television. There's many ways couples can spice up their love life without dishonoring each other.
Porno is for lonely people. Even then, it's rather pathetic (heard of hobbies, people?). Believe me, I'm single and have had my eyes stray to places they should not be. >>;
2006-06-15 19:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listennnnn to da kid on this. Porn can be dirty badhabit if it is over done. A lil bit its not cheating. But where it gets to the point where he is at it all the time that is not good. I say watch it with him, so when he thinks of watching it he will think of you. After a while he might not wanna watch it without you. As of acting on it as long as its not too dirty. If you feel you can live with doing it then do ya thing.
2006-06-15 19:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both partners are willing and find this exciting then it's fair game BUT if only one partner indulges in this, it is showing lack of respect to the other person. I would not want my husband sitting watching various forms of porn then coming to bed with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-15 19:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is fair to his female counterpart, because it is a form of cheating. Oh and I"m a male.
2006-06-15 19:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by dirtyqtip9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if it serves to arouse mutual sexual feelings and both agree that it form part of their foreplay, it is ok. but if pornography becomes an addiction and eats up one's life and affect his/her behaviour with other people, or is used to abuse children or other people then it is definitely wrong. i honestly think that looking at naked pictures is not wrong if it helps in developing a healthy relationship.
2006-06-15 19:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by jazzylips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not cheating but as far is it wrong that up to you and if you are will to go a long with it. Then it's fine but if it make you uncomfortable then it's wrong.
2006-06-15 19:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is nothing wrong in looking at porn perhaps he is looking for stimulation, something that he can do with you why not check it out you may enjoy looking at it to and perhaps start a new and better relation ship
2006-06-15 21:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pornography actually affects the relationships, because is the shortest way to infidelity and sexual disorders.
2006-06-15 19:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lunazuly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in a way they are betraying their female partner.
2006-06-15 19:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have no problem with porn me and my boyfriend watch it together..
2006-06-15 19:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋