2006-06-15 19:24:22 · 16 answers · asked by cgcrnc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This happened to me with my husband of 21 years, a little over two years ago. I thought I would die. Amazing how God knows what is best for us. Be thankful that someone else can take the bum off your hands. I know it seems like the end of the world, but it isn't. You deserve better. Cheaters SUCK! Get counseling, go have fun. And remember, what goes around, comes around. Move on!
2006-06-15 19:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sad that you have to deal with this kind of hurt!
He already admitted that he does not want a relationship with you anymore. Now you have to move on. He cheated on you... and we all know the saying... "Once a cheater, always a cheater."
Just be glad you found out NOW rather than years down the road. Thank God he didn't give you some kind of disease, seeing how he was cheating on you! He has humiliated you in the worst possible way already... There's not much else he could do to hurt you more. Throw his sorry A$$ out!! Just be glad he is someone else's problem now!
You already know what has to be done. Do it and get on with your life. You will be so much better without him. The right one is waiting out there for you. Go and find him! I'm sorry for the pain you are going through... but his deceit will make you stronger and you will survive!! Good luck!
2006-06-16 03:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the answer is simple although one that we don't want to imagine.
I think that it is time for one of you to move out. There is no longer a relationship - since he was the one that was unfaithful he should leave.
It is better to do it now then trying to hold on to whats left of the relationship. You will find someone that will treat you with respect and love you eternally.
i wish you the best of luck. Don't let it get you down - life is short - have a blast.
2006-06-16 02:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joni B has the right idea, which I've delt with also in my time. Only, you make this your decision so that there will be closure in the relationship, not ours. We are only giving you our opinions, which is different for everyone. Another thing I agree with is that there's someone looking just for you, like I'm praying for myself some day. Things will be hard to except initially, but time heals all with prayer.
2006-06-16 03:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them immediately. THEY'RE NO LONGER IN LOVE WITH YOU, so find someone who is. That person is out there waiting for you. If your partner had an affair once cos they're not in love with you, they will do it again. And again. And again.
Get the picture??
2006-06-16 02:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him go and you try your best to forget him. Anyone who has been unfaithful to you when you have a relationship together is not worth keeping. Move on, girl! You do not need him. Be strong and stay tough. Sometimes love cannot be easy. That's just how life is.
2006-06-16 04:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to say it but do you really want to stay with someone that does not love you back?? i know i wouldn't.. id rather find someone who is going to love me back and be honestly happy and not have to work at making someone else try to love you back. thats just torturting yourself even more... so if you love him set him free and do it for yourself too as hard as it may be your better off in the long run .. all the best for you :)
2006-06-16 04:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF KICK HIS AS$ TO THE CURB,BE THANKFUL YOU WERE NOT MARRIED WITH KIDS THE SITUATION COULD BE WORSE I WOULD MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU AND RESPECTS AND WONT TREAT YOU THIS WAY IT WILL HURT BUT YOU WILL GET OVER IT YOU DONT NEED TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL CHEAT IN THE FIRST PLACE LET HIM GO AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE
2006-06-16 02:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him in the nose really hard and then leave him for a better and richer person. you're better off without him.
2006-06-16 02:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say screw him you dont need that kind of bullshit in your life thats insane tell him to hit the road its hise loose not yourss
2006-06-16 02:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋