Do you think it is ok to have a boyfreind at the age of 13?

Question

I have a boyfreind an i am 13 years old and he says i am just perfect, he always tells me i cute and sexy, and i love him very much, but i dont know if it is healthy to have a bf at the age of 13

Answer 1

bf's at 13 is okay, just don't get too serious and go ga ga over them. you still have a long way's to go in life so take relationships at this age lightly and a lesson to be learned.

Answer 2

Yes it is ok to have a bf at age 13, just be careful with what you do. For example you may wish to choose things that are more of a friends thing to do like going bowling or something corny like that. If you do go out you should definitely not have sex, and probably should have mouth-closed only kisses. Do things where there are adults around so bad things won't happen. If you have an older sibling maybe they will take you two places like the movies and stuff. Older siblings/cousins can be cool like that in ways that parents aren't. They'll be there to make sure you're safe, yet they aren't a pain and they tend to be less embarassing. If you aren't ready to have a bf then that is your choice but there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are not doing inappropriate things.

Answer 3

It is probably healthy to have a boy friend - that's a friend who is a boy - at 13. If he is a sex partner... do the math. He will probably be history in 3 months. That's four sex partners a year until you maybe marry at 25. That's 48 sex partners in 12 years. God knows how many sex partners they will have had and you may as well figure that you have slept with them too because you are swimming in the great STD Pool, How healthy do you think you will be when you are 25 years old. Do you know how great the odds are that you will have herpes, genital warts, and maybe AIDS by then? How many abortions will you have had? Will you be tied down with one or two illegitimate kids to care for? Will your life be OVER literally or FOR REAL by then? No boy has any serious regard for you at 13. What do you think they want to marry you and cherish you and build a life with you? You are a toy and an experiment. Enjoy your freedom and your youth. It will be over SO SOON!!

Answer 4

Okay, I'll tell you what I think: it really depends how you live it. If you live it light and sweet, I'd say it's acceptable. As long s it's not too wild, too passionate or too much of anything, you're A-okay. Now, personally though, I would wait a little. Though don't get me wrong- I am a total romantic who is very impatient for love! But I know what's best for me and am deciding to wait. Besides, I do homeschooling and I live in a tiny town for now; how the heck would I get the bf I want? Anyway, it just depends no your feeling and if you know what's best for you. Then, that's exactly what you do. Of course, it depends (I know- it depends AGAIN) if what you think is best for you actually is! So, I would keep the relationship light because you're young and full of life- literally. As in, a whole century is probably ahead of you. So just don't push it. Don't do anything you're hesitating on and don't lose your virginity too early because just about everyone who DID lose it early have said they regretted it. Remember to take it easy. It can be tough, but it's best- trust me ;) K, good luck! :)

Answer 5

I personally don't think that you are ready to have an exclusive anything right now. You are really just finding out about all the things that you like and dislike right now. Boyfriends will come in time. You may be perfect right now, but what about when someone else comes along and has just a little bit more than you. Then what? When you are in your teens, your ideas and interest are always changing. This week Brian is hot, next week it may be Nick or Reggie, who knows. You are to young to limit yourself. You have a lot of time to find out what you don't like, and then work on what you do like. Go from there, don't be totally in love with a guy just because he whispers sweet nothings in your ear. Give yourself time. Okay!!

Answer 6

well i dont think its appropriate at age 13 to do anything but maybe go to the mall with a boy, and only if he is your age. the fact that he tells you you are sexy tells me he is interested in sex which is NOT appropriate for a girl of 13. I have a friend who's kid had a baby at 13 and she has been tied down with a kid and lost her whole teen age years being stuck at home. think very seriously about all this, talk to your mom if she says NO i would listen to your mom. teen years are all about friends and fun and highschool and growing. don't let some boy get in the way of all that

Answer 7

i think you are old enough to have a boyfriend. Are you in high school already? The only thing is I don't think you should be getting into something TOO serious. Just an innocent, fun relationship. Don't fall for sweet talk and have sex too young either. You are only thirteen and have plenty of time to do that. You don't want to regret anything later. So just be safe and remember that he's not the only boy in the world so don't get too attached. Good luck with everything

Answer 8

You can have a boyfriend as long as your parents approve of it. I think it wise to remember your ages and realize that you are just puppy lovin' right now and it will pass although you may think you "feel" its going to last forever. Don't get too involved in your "relationship"......Live the life of a 13 year old friends, movies, roller skating rinks whatever you do to have fun and make time for your boyfriend. Just dont go falling head over heels and forgetting your age. That could spell trouble. Just have fun with it and keep your wits about you at all times.

Answer 9

You are at the right age to be thinking about having a boyfriend, but you need to talk this over with your parents. I think you should wait a little while, but I am not your mother and I don't know how mature you are, how responsible you are, how well you do in school, or how well you get along with your friends and siblings.

You need to talk to your mom about this and ask her.

I told my daughters that they couldn't go out until they were 85. By the time they were 13 they started negotiating with me. I caved in to my oldest when she was 14 and my youngest wasn't even interested until she was almost 16.

I suggest that you ask your mother. If she tells you you cannot go out until you are 85, wait 6 months and start negotiating with her.

Answer 10

I'm 13 and I think it's healthy.
It's not like a disease. It's never unhealthy nor healthy to have a bf/gf at the age of 13.
Just make sure that you're not doing anything he's pressuring you into doing that you're not ready to do.

Answer 11

Yes i thinks its okay for u to have a boyfriend at the age of 13 and if u love him and thinks hes right for u go ahead and stay with him