What do you do in this predicament?

Question

I was dating this chick for like 7 months right aight. She was straight up drama everytime we spoke its like i stepped into a broadway musical. Well one day she just went to far or whatever and so i broke up with her and what not. Now Im talking to this young dame nice and whatever you know we really ain't dating cause imma bout to go to college and she's still in H.S. (Im 17 shes 15 by the way) but anyway so we aren't dating but we like each other. But I think i still have feelings for the Emmy award winning drama queen. And to make things worse the drama queen is excellent at making her bidness public so i just can't just hit and split like if i go in then its for good you know so like what do i do i keep it funky and just chill with the young'n or do I get back with the Diva? Cause like on one hand it feels like im driving my life into a brick wall when im with her but on the other hand its like a brick wall that loves to cook and clean and clip toe nails you know so what isit

Answer 1

Sounds to me like she has more issues than a magazine rack. Don't look back, forget her. It didn't work the first time it probably wont be better this time around.

As for the hit and split... you can get it elsewhere. Leave the drama for the stage...

Answer 2

Ok, first thing's first... FOCUS ON COLLEGE. The only drama I hear is your little story here. Go to school - do something very good for yourself. Take English and writing courses... Take a lot of English and writing courses. Leave girls alone. It's too much for your brain to take right now. You're not ready for a mature relationship if you are spending time with a 15 year old anyway. So leave it all alone. You need to challenge yourself - set your sights higher... and not in the relationship department... what are you going to do after college?

Oh, and clip your own toe nails.

Answer 3

Avoid the drama. Don't get into something with the Diva unless both of you agree on the terms. If she's expecting things to grow and you are not, then don't give yourself a headache.

Answer 4

Youre young dont tie down to the drama queen if you dont like the way she is, if the youngin makes you happy give it a shot! She might just make the feelings you have for the diva go away! but if you dont like that then just let time work its magic! dont rush yourself!

Answer 5

Forget about the drama queen, been there, done that. It wont work out and it will drive you absolutely crazy.Just go ahead and talk with the 15yo, she seems like your best bet until you go to college

Answer 6

why do you care about cook and clip toenails kinda sh*t? your going to college ,you dont want a serious thing.youll just feel different later on trust me,especially from how you spoke of her.And leave the little girl alone boss,nothing good comming from that either.just have fun and worry about relationships when its with a WOMAN later on. my advice.hope you take it but if not good fuc*ing luck!!

Answer 7

Yo homeboy WORD UP
Toss em back, cuz U B gettin sum real trim in college...

Down wit dat

Answer 8

dude shes 15... just out of reach of "molding" range... and by molding i mean having her whipped and molded into the girl you want her to be... its crude yet goes on everyday. You're older, most likely smarter, go with a 13 year old if you can, mold that b*tch into shape LOL

Answer 9

take some time and be single, you will prolly meet a nice girl in college who meets all your needs. Good Luck!

Answer 10

good grief--my brother-take time out if possible go read about Willie lynch hell look him up on the internet,now see this dude told the masters back in the day how to treat our ancestors and he said if they did this too us long enough we will act like this years to come so please "dawg" lets try to break this tradition--u are going away to college leave these young girls along think about if u continue this friendship w/the 15 she get pregnant u leave goto college experience a whole new life and now this 15 yrold kid is here with another kid and next she'll be another statistic....the drama queen come on dawg would u goto a resturant where a woman takes your order by saying Yea fool whats up what yall want today - or drama queen gets u caught up in something oops guess what u dead or locked upp another statistic why would u want a woman who puts her BIDNESS in the street even in the bible it states beware of a jezzabel you youngsters think that type of behavior is cute its nor it make our people look bad and know guess what here u are w/low self esteem because of a brick wall who u think u cant get over sad son u need to grow and stop looking at all these videos about how we suspose to act yea sure ole girl can cook and clean and what ever but if u marry her u get hurt is she strong enough to handle the household or is she too busy getting her hair and nails done trying to keep up with the Joneses can she speak correctly so that one may understand her if u loose your job does she say ***** go out and get a job or does she respond gently and say baby it wil be ok we are gonna make it will she leave u cause u cant find a job does she better her self so that she can help encourage you too so that you too may grow strong together son you need to think about how you are falling into this willie lynch society dawg better yourself think about you are and bidness man and use manners but your girl come in all ghetto keeping it real fo sho and people look at her crazy even our own people Son go educate yourself about yourself read and leave this drama alone a good book for you to read total money makeover by dave ramsey-- dawg start reading this book to better your self to be better in this world sad seems your going to college to party and not learn anything pick up books about our people so you can understand why we need to better ourselves its not the white man that keeps us down it not having the knowledge to know that everything u write about so far will keep you down its called the wrong choices and what you have wrote to us today is a bunch of wrong choices better your self young brother so that u may better your family and your children and build wealth so that you may better your childrens children go read read read =A white man said it better if u wnat to hide something from black people put it in a book because they never read==dawg do you have low self esteem that leads u to think that she likes me she does all this for me and no one else has learn to be your own man hell everything she do u can do for your self ''will she still love and respect and not show out in public because you decided to play off will she leave u or will she still try to hurt you thinking o i'll teach him will harm u to prove a point or will she be that strong black queen that will stand behind her black king no matter what-- ex: pres. clinton got busted u didnt see hilary going out stalking him or cursing him out in public she held all that pain in because he is her king and she will be there no matter guy you how too much to think about than the issues you put up here GO find a mentor that can help u because u are headed to a path of distruction I know I have rattled on but u need to see the light on stuff some where ------------A STRONG BLACK QUEEN---read this book when black men ruled the world by clegg hell look him up on the net also check out this website learn some stuff read about the willie lynch letters on the net