i've been hearing things about him and it makes me wonder. i called him on it and he denied it. i trust him but now i don't know if he really would cheat on me. do i check his phone? call the friends? I HAVE NO IDEA and im going CRAZY! and if i find nothing do i just take his word for it? and then can our relationship ever go back to the way it was?
2006-06-15 18:00:54 · 27 answers · asked by stars 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a healthy relationship, you don't wonder if the other is cheating on you. You just know they aren't, because you'd know it if they acted differently and you'd just know that they wouldn't. If you are in doubt, it probably means something is not right between you. Try to think about it from your own perspective. If you were to go and spy on him, would that be good for your relationship? I'd say no, regardless of the outcome. If you don't spy on him, but always keep wondering, that's no good either. So...you either need to get out of the relationship or get yourself to a point where you are so confident about yourself and your boy friend that this is just not a question any more.
Good luck. Painful stuff...
2006-06-15 18:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by psps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna have to say dont always beleive what you hear .. people talk to much they may just be out to get ur man or maybe you? Has anything between you guys changed or are you just going on hear say .. always remember a funky pair of lips will tell you anything you wanna hear .. Do you really trust him ? I mean has he givin u reason not too? Ive been there and done it .. dont stress yourself out looking thru phone records or asking friends..cuz if there any kind of friends to him they wont tell you anyway LOL .. You only live once live life to the fullest dont worry about the small stuff I promise you if he is cheating everything always has a way of getting out !! Keep your head up girl .. follow your heart you will know if he's cheatin .. it dont do no good to ask cuz they never admit it ..
2006-06-16 02:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by tainted.luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going crazy and he hasn't given you a reason to???? Get a grip and give him a break. No matter where, who, when, or what, there are those who love to see problems in other people's relationships...they just love to spread rumors and sit back and watch what happens...and you are silly enough to fall for this stuff. You are lucky I am not your boyfriend, for you would be history. No one needs an insecure, jealous mate watching every step they make. Get a life and get back to the program. If he is cheating, (I doubt it), you will learn soon enough and can dump him...or is that what you are looking for... a reason to dump him? You don't need a reason..just do him a favor and own up to it.
2006-06-16 01:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother about the hearing things be deaf. u love that guy most and u also trust him so what is the problem. I hope he loves u too.
Trust is just like a bridge between to persons who loves each other.
whenever u feel so then call him straight.
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2006-06-16 01:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by rahul d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his cell phone for text msgs, or any calls, or even in the address book for names that seem unfamiliar. His email or whatever account he has like friendster etc.
If you find nothing, either he's really good at hiding stuff, or he really isnt cheating on you.
Relationships depend alot on trust.
Good luck =)
2006-06-16 01:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by whiteblaq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him? Are your sources trustworthy? Do your sources have alterior motives for trying to split you two up? Questions to ask yourself before trying to snoop. If you snoop, and find out he was telling the truth, he may not want to be with a person that doesn't trust him. Just my opinion.
2006-06-16 01:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of things have you been hearing? One thing you should NOT do is just trust him because you want to. I know you want to trust him - but you've got to think about it really carefully. Are they just random rumors your hearing?
2006-06-16 01:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Cheaters, it's a decent tv show. Other solutions are hard to explain.
2006-06-16 01:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're asking this question AT ALL you DO NOT TRUST HIM!! find a new boyfriend. it's that simple, yet millions struggle with this all the time, you obviously have a reason.
2006-06-16 01:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ruester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am having the same problems right now i am trying to devise a pan to catch he is a former cheater but it seems as though he has stopped or either it is just that i just cant catch him
2006-06-16 01:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by yousexythangyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋