Hi I am 17 yr old mom and my husband is 19 we have been together 3yrs and married for 1yr. He is always accusing me of cheating on him. I have never cheated on him and I never would. He just doesnt believe me. Are all men like this. I just want him to start trusting me. I want to have a happy family. Can anyone give me any advice. thanks
2006-06-15 17:53:35 · 6 answers · asked by jessicarunnels_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well unless he cheated on me a year ago we never go anywhere he is always with me I mean really we are never apart. So y is he still accusing me
2006-06-15 18:04:43 · update #1
I love him so much and i just dont understand why he does this he is really hurting my self esteem
2006-06-15 18:15:57 · update #2
Start snooping you will find he is blaming you for something he is doing or all ready has done sorry
2006-06-15 18:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are really young to begin with. This is probably why he is so insecure. Not all men are like this hon he is just young and has to grow up and know that you will never hurt or cheat on him. Just be the wife you need to be to him and prove to him that you are who you are a loving and faitful wife. Just love and accept him where he is at and work with him on this marriage and spend lots of time with him doing what he likes to do!
2006-06-16 00:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity that arises from the fact that he is not worth the trust you place in him. My ex-husband lied to me about his age, about his family being very nice and what not. When I was married to him he owuld lie about everything. And not once would he trust me. He said that when I got married to him he thought that I had married him to get a visa to the US and that I had a boyfriend here and would run away with him. After the divorec he still says the same. He is 13 yrs older than me, but had lied to me about his age and so many other things. He found it hard to trust me beacuse I trusted him blindly and he knew how untrustworthy he was. And then he knew how many things he had lied to me about and so probably thought that I too lied to him. Anyway, I'm glad that marriage is over.
2006-06-15 18:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by drrkamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ive been through that im engaged and my fiance always used to accuse me and he had no reason at all to do it i was so faithful i never cheated and i never would but the thing was that he was cheating on me so i guess he had a guilty concious and would always blame me so i dont know check that out. GOOD LUCK=)
2006-06-15 18:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will never trust you, insecurity doesn't fade, change, nothing. Usually the person accusing is himself/herself a cheater trying to justify cheating on you by accusing you.
Have fun with all that.
2006-06-15 18:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ruester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how most men are because they feel they can't trust women because they believe that they are sneaky. But in your situation you have been with this guy for three years and he still doesn't trust you then he has some trust isses maybe he has been hurt in the past...
2006-06-15 17:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by blooscooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋