yeah well, i am still in school and i am having major friend problems. i have two best friends named alexis and meagan but there is this other girl that i do not like at all because we were all fighting with her. it had gotten so bad that we all had to have a conference with us and my/their parents. it turned out that the girl we did not like which is amanda wanted to be are friend and me and meagan wanted to be her friend too. i dont think alexis wanted to be her friend because the next day alexis told me and meagan that she did not want to be amanda friend only mine and meagans but we could still talk to her and say hi to each other. well today amanda, meagan, and i tell alexis that we didn't want to be her friend anymore and she said " go figure" in a mad way. but i dont know what to do because they are all really nice friends and they are so funny. but school is almost ending and we are still fighting about this whole friendship thing. so who do you think i shoul go with?m/a/a???
2006-06-15 17:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know what it is like.BEEN THERE FOR A WHILE.I am in school myself,you see?Anyway here is what you can do.Have a nice cool chat with your friend Alexis and ask her what is it that she hates about Amanda.Then meet Amanda and ask her to adjust a bit.She seems to be an understanding person.I am sure that it will go well.I hope you four become the BEST of FRIENDS.
GOOD LUCK and dont loose your heart if something gose wrong.THE LIFE IS LONG andTHE WORLD IS A SMALL PLACE.Who knows maybe we will end up making friends someday.......
2006-06-15 18:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by STAR FIRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who can't stand each other but I still hang out with both of them. It's not your fault they don't like each other, so they shouldn't make you choose. First, why doesn't Alexis like Amanda? Is it really that big? In school, people usually get over it if it's not such a big deal. I would explain them I still want to hang out with all of them, and I don't want them to make me choose because they are both my friends and it's their conflict, not mine. But if Alexis is that bossy as it seems to me, you have to tell her she can't tell you what can or can't you do with your other friends. on the other hand, maybe she's just jealous b/c she misses the time it was only 3 of you.
Hopefully I helped :)
2006-06-15 18:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by missgirlie21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go with Amanda and Meagan because i think there are much nicer then Alexis.
2006-06-15 18:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about taking a stand and see who goes with you? I know it sounds scary and there is a risk involved, but I'm sure you're cool enough to have people want to hang with you regardless of the Alexix, Meagan, Amanda triangle. Either get the 4 of you together and say "Girls, this summer, it's us four, all for one, one for all type thing" Or say "Girls, I'm sick of this fighting, life's too short and I want to enjoy my summer, either you're with me or you're not!" They may not be with you, and if not you'll probably enjoy your summer a lot more than refereeing the triage.
2006-06-15 17:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you all need to stop being so dramatic and just be friends. There is no reason the 4 of you can't all be friends. Get together and talk things out calmly. You can all be friends if you try.
2006-06-15 17:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may seem a little harsh but your friend alexis shouldn't order you around like that. if you like that other girl as a friend then be her friend. you might be missing on a good friendship. and if your friend alexis doesn't respect that then alexis isn't a very good friend.
2006-06-15 17:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by that one chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends come and go all the time but the ones that will stick by your side are your true friends. i had a friend in HS who is no longer friends with the 3 girls that were in this group of 7 we had going 4 girls and 3 guys (i was one of the 3 girls she is no longer friends with). we would always fight every year and we would be friends again....but now i see it wasn't worth it.....and its her loss that i'm still friends with the rest of them....
2006-06-15 17:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunshine...I am shocked that you are still in school. This sounds like SUCH a grownup problem. I think it would be a good idea if you all went and rented Mean Girls....Cuz your friends are big fat meanies.
2006-06-19 11:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by lisalisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship is 4 ever no matter who likes who and who dont like who, friends are like magnets, the closest friends come to you and stick beside you the ones who say they are your friends dont. no matter who likes who. you shouldent have to choose friends just cause one doesnt like the other. you can never have to many TRUE friends. good luck!
2006-06-15 17:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say choose... the one you know you can get more from... like y be friends with one person and have to others h8 you.... think about it like that
2006-06-21 12:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Fritz J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋