2006-06-15 17:30:51 · 19 answers · asked by vannyty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 24 and i have no interest is sex, my husband is great in bed, but with 2 kids, cooking, cleaning and everything else that comes with being a house wife, there's no time to enjoy sex. in fact the only time we do have time together is when our nephew is over and he watches to kids.
Have you tried different places to have sex, the bedroom gets really boring after awhile, make sure that you won't get interrupted, spend plenty of time on foreplay, show her that you love her and you want to please her.
2006-06-15 17:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, over 25, but all I can say is my own experience.
I loved a woman; we were together for four years. In the end, it wasn't working -- we split up.
I went into this weird depression-phase. I didn't want to date, socialize with women, or have anything in particular to do with them. I felt NOTHING. (The weird thing is, when I was in this depressed state, I continued to act and talk like a normal sex-obsessed guy)
After some months, this all went away.
2006-06-16 00:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible .. could be medical , yes .. likely?? no ... Having children is just an excuse ... especially the first... refraining from sex is a choice here .. most likely it is definitely conscious or subconsciously the mate. Yes she may love him or think she does. There is definitely something lacking ... definitely being unfulfilled. She is more than likely with the wrong mate or her needs are not being fulfilled. Maybe just need a discrete affair lol.
2006-06-16 00:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by wolfeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being on the pill after a few years made me feel this way. I just got the IUD recently (no hormones) and after only a few days my sex drive returned like never before. It was only after I got off the pill that I heard left and right that other women experience the same as I. If you are on the pill, it's worth trying something without the hormones....
2006-06-16 00:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Josi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way: I lost interest in sex from about that age and it lasted for about 15 years--all because I had the wrong guy!! I met the right guy last year and I am now soooooooooooooooooooooo sexually active that even I can't believe it!
So, I think that you probably have the wrong guy.
2006-06-16 00:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know. I lost my interest in sex a few months ago-I'm only 21-and then I left to go to school, and while I was there, my drive suddenly just kicked back, and came on again. Maybe if you take your mind on it and concentrate on other things, one day you'll be seeing that one somebody that makes you go "day-um!" and it'll turn you on.
2006-06-16 00:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the hell they can, i got pregnat at 25, i loved having sex before the baby, im 27 now and sometimes i dont care to have sex, u have to put me in the mood or something, bringing it back is up to u and if the guy arouses u
2006-06-16 00:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by jaybersdime1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, people of all different ages can have a loss of sex drive. You might have a hormonal imbalance or it might just be too much stress. In order to get a proper diagnosis you should talk to your obgyn about it and see what he/she can do to help you get your libido back.
2006-06-16 00:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 minutes I can spare
2006-06-16 00:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by :Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it must be mental or physical....What has happened in your life? You should maybe consider going to a doctor and getting checked out.
2006-06-16 00:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by bocababyboca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋