You always had a crusH on the person, however your sibling got them first. Before the daeth they were married for about 3 years with 1 two year old child. DO YOU THINK THAT IS RIGHT WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
2006-06-15 17:25:19 · 17 answers · asked by butterslova 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No forget it there would be an underlying guilt that would eat at the relationship.
2006-06-15 19:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both have feelings for eachother I don't think there would be a problem as long as family members aren't having a fit. Back in the day it was common practice for a brother to take on his dead brother's wife/kids if he wasn't married. I certainly don't see a problem with it - good luck!
2006-06-15 17:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not journey down the road of having a relationship with my niece/nephew father. I just will not cross the line of dating my family or friends significant other, whether dead or alive. And a crush it would be, to all around, who would have to witness such a joining.
Be blessed in choosing what’s best.
2006-06-15 17:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Decent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's alright. My husband's great-grandfather married three sisters in succession. The first one died, he brought the second to the US from France and she hated it here so she went back to France and the marriage was annuled, then he married the third sister and they were married for the rest of their lives. ANyway, even aside from his anecdote, I believe it's fine. I wish you well.
2006-06-15 17:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Pineapple Hat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be right after they have time to heal and trying to get past the death of their spouse. They were married til death do they part so i dont see why not!
2006-06-16 00:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that it would be a good idea. Some members of your family may find it troubling. They may even see it as you trying to replace the deceased. I wouldn't do it.
2006-06-15 17:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by willistara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't. There are people who can deal with it, but if your feelings aren't returned by him/her to the same degree there will be a problem.
In most cases, its a bad thing. If its meant to be, its meant to be.
2006-06-15 17:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by aliasasim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it would be ok. It might be hard on the family but I don't think it is morally wrong. Why shouldn't you both find happiness.
2006-06-15 17:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by bocababyboca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only known of one such incident like the one you are asking
about, and it worked out just fine.
2006-06-15 17:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!!!!!! Unless the dead sister/brother ask them to fill in , and gave them their wishes, even then I couldn't do it, but to each their own.. Without their wishes, to me that would be like betraying my family..
2006-06-15 17:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋