Would you tell your best friend that you think the person she's in love with (dating only) is not right for her. Flirts with others (a lot).
Or let her discover it it on her own because I think it won't work out anyway????
2006-06-15 16:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by La_Belle_LadyR99 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i feel that, if they are really your friend... then they should be able to accept your perception of reality and at least listen to what you have to say. if they are your friend... what you say could, or should be important enough to listen to; not nessesarily agree with. it's okay to: agree to disagree! you might just be right, but it's not your business to impose your feelings on someone, but if you care for someone, then it should be okay to at least warn them! if they take it the wrong way... you don't own that. you said your piece. if they get mad; apologize and step back. you've done the best you could do! peace-out, Saint Gillian.
2006-06-15 16:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Saint Gillian 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
If you notice the things that he does like flirting, trust me, she notices them to. She is probably already aware of these faults. I wouldn't come out and say "Hey I don't think he is the one" Just talk to her about what she wants from a partner. Maybe she will realize it on her own if she already hasn't. Or perhaps she thinks he is the one. Not to be harsh, but it is her decision. Just be there for her no matter what happens and if she asks for your opinion just be honest with her.
2006-06-15 23:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell her. If she thinks that she's in love, then she has already made her decision, and will ignore any input that you give. It will only hurt your friendship. If someone told you that your significant other "was not right" for you, do you think you'd listen?
Anyway, it should be her decision to decide who is right for her.
2006-06-15 23:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i would tell her...after all she is my best friend and i care for her...And after tell i will leave it to her if she wants to discover on her own also she can do..I have done my work...
2006-06-15 23:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the type of person that would defantly have to say some thing so she dosn't get hurt in the end. I know if it was me I would like to know.
2006-06-16 00:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your her best friend yes tell them what you think its up to them if they take your advice but let them know its because you love them and don't want to see them hurt....
2006-06-15 23:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by dsheetsus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to but of course the friend might not belive u and get mad and then she finds out and your friends again and shes over him time for both of u to move on
2006-06-15 23:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by lipstick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course If this person is really you best friend you should be able tell them anything
2006-06-15 23:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by bubblesgalore222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would express your conerns to her.. but then stay out of the situation.
Sometimes people need to see it for themselves before they can believe it.
If she knows he is like this, and it doesn't seem to bother her, then it shouldn't bother you.
2006-06-15 23:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how good of a friend are ya
allways tell the truth but make sure its truth and not jealousy
2006-06-15 23:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋