i dont want to let go of one of my past relationships but we have already broken up ...but the one the other hand still love this person to death want to still have this person but at the time the right thing to do was to breakup...whashould i do...saty or go.???
2006-06-15 15:44:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
I think you've already answered your own question, and perhaps need confirmation. So, if you say it's best not to stay, the yes, let go and move on. You will find that most likely time will help, so give yourself plenty of it.
Good luck.
2006-06-15 15:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go, definitely. I don't know how old you are or your situation, but maybe at another time it will work. Timing is a weird thing. Also, if this guy/girl wants to be apart from you, then you shouldn't want to stay with him/her. God has something better planned for you. You deserve a better match. I dated a guy who gave what he thought was his best in the relationship and it just wasn't up to par for me. Now I am married to someone so much more giving and better matched. At the time I thought the other guy was the bees knees!!!
2006-06-15 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for u 2 do is what ur heart says. Nobody can make that decision for you but you. Although it may take some getting used 2 if you decide to leave, it would be for the best. If it were me I would just try and make it work!
2006-06-22 14:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go of anything in which you invested your time, emotions, and energy is hard. But if you do not leave the past behind then you won't have the time, emotional well being, and energy to apply to something beautiful that may be right in front of you.
Look ahead. You may like what you see.
2006-06-15 16:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by pmlanedog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave. If you love him then you love him enough to let him go. You have to do whats best for you. Relationships can be hurtful its just a part of life. Do the right thing you will be glad that you did.
2006-06-15 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're asking for advice, but you have to go with your gut instinct. I lost the love of my life yesterday & I can't imagine just walking away from that. Best wishes...
2006-06-15 15:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by PoPo's Ho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise completely! A good definition of insanity is, "To keep doing what doesn't work". You have already tried everything you can think of or you wouldn't be leaving.
2006-06-15 16:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by euhmerist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run
2006-06-15 16:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by ABC 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and don't look back.
2006-06-15 15:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋