Please Read!!! I want your opinion!?

Question

I am amazed at how judgmental some of you people are. People come to this website to get help, not to be critisized and judged for the desitions that they make. Sometimes people don't have people in their lives that they can depend on in confidence with life chosies and advise. It is just amazing to me how some of the responces are so judgemental. Like none of you have ever made mistakes or bad choises. How about giving constructive advise that people can take away from here instead of comming down on them for asking for help. I just don't get it.

It is disheartning to me to read some of the responces, because we are forgetting that we are given a real oportunity to help someone and impact their life and I think that people don't take that seriously. It does make me sad. I have not asked to many questions on this site but I frequent it. Some of the issuses are so delicate. It is unfortunate that people don't take them serious.

MEQALUS03: I get what you are saying and I do agree that everyone has the right to their own opinion and that SOMETIMES people need to hear it straight up, BUT that is not always the way that people need to be dealt with and to receive advice. There is 100% truth in that you don't know the entire story of where people are coming from, so how do you determine wether they should be treated delicatly of harshly. You can get your point across and say what you need to say in a king way. I have a strong feeling that the advice you are giving would be recieved and listened to then being harsh and offensive.

Answer 1

I think that you will find that the rude answers are very often from the very young, the very ingnorant, or the very closed minded. I like to think that the great majority of people on here (and people in the world) are good people, just like you and me - interested in the community and interested in helping. The most reasonable are simply discounting the rude and ignorant responses on here as if they were grafitti - so the ones really getting the raw deal are the rude ones. They are wasting their time writing drivel that no one else will ever really read.

Peace!

Answer 2

For some of the youngs girls on here worried abut whether or not they are pregnant, sorry but honestly, they need the straight up truth! I try not to sound rude, but i may come across that way!
I do agree some opinions of people on here are a little harsh but most of the time its the truth! I think for a lot on here that are older have been down the road of having kids when they were kids and they can explain a lot better than i can, on how it was a hard thing for them to do!
You have to understand when people you don't know answer your question, they don't know everytthing about you, where you are coming from and people are entitled to their opinion! not everyone is going to agree on abortion, agree with young girls having sex and children, spankings, etc...
I like getting different opinions when i ask questions, it helps me see things from a different perspective!
So unless you have been hurt by something someone has said on here, I don't think you need to stand up for something that might not even exsist!
And if you have been insulted, (if it was by me) I'm sorry! Just giving my opinion! No where on here does it say we need to conform to others beliefs or opinions in order to answer!

Answer 3

I am shocked 2 at how mean some people can be.
I am kind of sarcastic but I always try to give people good advice And I try 2 be as helpful as possible.
I wish everyone on here would do the same.

Answer 4

I agree with you their are some people here that just take and answer questions as if they were a joke and they don't realize that the person who made the question needs some help and they have no other resources to get them

Answer 5

I consider North Korea's already making an attempt particularly rough with the missile assault on South Korea, if it finally ends up being a moment double theater battle like WWII was once then that is typically be Iran

Answer 6

are you trying to change the world???? you cant !!! its just the way it is ive asked a couple of questions here and ALOT of people were VERY rude but i dont care cos I WAS THE ONE THAT ASKED the question so you have to sort of expect it... i only take in the answers that help me not upset me so its just on every individual and how they take it every time i answer a question i make sure that im honest, NICE and caring !!!! if they choose to be rude thats they're choice if it makes them feel better putting other people down why not?? we're here to help right???? my advice is JUST DONT TAKE IT TO HEART !!! its an open forum to millions of people you really cant expect much !!!

Answer 7

Because some people come on here and say things that are just wrong, and need to be slapped down for it. But good spelling is always a plus.

Answer 8

I think lots of the people on here judge or are sarcastic because it is funny to them. Some of the answers I've gotten from my questions are cruel, but many times I find them to be the "best" answers...

Answer 9

Not everybody is out to give advice that is judgemental or criticizing. Most of those people are simply jaded, most likely very young, and have personal issues they use to vent online with. Pathetic, yes, but it happens. There are people who are around to actually try and help, so try not to lose heart. :)

Answer 10

some people on here are just immature they don't care who they hurt all they care about is having a laugh or two at someone else I'm on here alot and some of the stupid disgusting questions and answers really burn me I only answer questions that i can give an educated answer or opinion to my view on this is if you don't know what you are talking about don't open your mouth