Bisexual People...?

Question

A bi sexual person is one who likes both males and females the same. Ususally he/she doesn't prefer one over the other. Some argue that there is no such thing as a bisexual person, that, that person is automatically GAY. Is this true or false? Please state your opinion.

Answer 1

False, some people can really have an equal attraction to both males and females, I know since both my friend and I are bi-sexual.The reason why many believe that theres no such thing as bi-sexual is because then theres no way to explain it scientifically. Now a days people are realizing that there are bi's out in the world.

Answer 2

It's a sliding scale. Some days/years, bi's perfer males more than females and vice versa. Some people are 30/70, 20/80, 40/60, 50/50, you name it (as long as it adds up to 100). Others don't see gender when choosing a mate - so if Mr. Wonderful happens to be a guy, so be it. But is Miss Spectacular comes along, *poof*, a bi loves a girl. I strongly believe that there is such a thing as bisexuality (since I am bi). No one is "autmoatically gay" - it's labeling something in an instant that most people spend a few years trying to define.

Answer 3

Yeah, this is my 4th Kinsey speech today! Sweet!
Lol, ok, serious Jill now -
Kinsey says that half the population is completely heterosexual. That makes them Kinsey 0's. 2-10% are completely homosexual, or K6's. Everyone else falls into the the 1-5 category, being attracted to the different sexes in different proportions, not necissarily (sic) 50/50. So, basically, not only do "bisexuals" exist, they are much more prevalent than homosexuals. However, most do not identify themselves as such, choosing to say they're either straight or gay because bisexuality carries such connotations of indecieciveness (sic - sorry, guys, it's late) or those annoying little tramps that make out with girls to get guys. Bisexuality is a misleading term, especially if you know what you're talking about Kinsey-wise.

Answer 4

There are bi sexual people and it is not synonomous with homosexuality. It is however, at least partial homosexual. I see the bi-sexual person as one that will screw anything. He or she is so hooked on sex that it doesnt matter who it is with.

Now, whether the person that claims he/she is bisexual is really that way is another question. For years Elton John claimed he was bisexual, and finally he came out and admitted he's 100% fairy. Until recently many homosexuals chose to stay in the closet. Nowaday I am not so sure that many people that claim to be bi really are. Some people are just experimenting so they dont feel like they missed anything. Others are homosexuals that dont want to admit it yet. Being bisexual is the flavor of the week nowadays, and soooo trendy to some, especial females. You see chicks kissing each other on t.v. all the time now, and of course that is working overtime on the minds of kids that are soooooo easy to influence. They think its cool, and they will try anything. Hell, if you can make a kid think that wearing his pants down his/her *** to show off their underwear is "cool" you can get the dumb bastards to do just about anything.

Answer 5

Not true...exactly. A bi person likes both, but they usually prefer one over the other. I do not think that it is possible to like them the same. May i add? A guy that likes guys,does not want every guy that he sees. He is attracted to a certain kind of guy or a guy with a certain look or that guy that has that "something going on." It is hard to explain, unless you are "bi."

There is this attraction and when you are near a person that has what you find attracting, you feel it. It is powerful. It does not mean that a bi person will have sex with ANYTHING. Get a life, if you think that. It just means that you are "wired" diffirent. It does not mean that you are a freak. For the bi guy or girl, it is what is "normal" for them.

The important thing is to accept yourself and deal with it in your way. Be who you are. Screw those..not literally...that do not like you for being who you are. Be you.

To me, in a nutshell, "gay" is a person that prefers the "same sex." ONLY. A "bi" person likes both. Simply stated, but true. Just like people like diffirent flavors of ice cream. People have "flavors" for their life.

Answer 6

I am Bisexual so yes Virginia we do exist. I am equally attracted to both male and female. I am married and I love my wife and love sex with her.
I would never have penetrative sex with a men because it is disrespectful for one and is the best way to spread STDs. But I would love to find a guy to frot with and maybe do a little oral with but only if he was also married and monogamous with his wife. But seeing as how guys like that are so deep under cover that has not happened and I am OK with it if it never does I still fantasize about it a lot though.

Just being honest here. Not looking for judgments. Go to the website g0ys.org it has a lot of info on male sexuality and it also has a lot of info about the biblical view on male to male and female to female sexuality. I found it quite helpful in quelling my self doubts about my own sexuality.

Answer 7

Why are all the answers to do with sex. I find both men and women attractive, and I can also fall in love with either. I was with my girlfriend for a year, and before that I came out of a two year relationship with a man. I couldn't say that I don't like men, and I couldn't say that I don't like women. True, some girls do it to tease men, or because it looks cool on the TV, but it is making it harder for us true bi-sexuals out there. Liking both men and women is a sexuality, your born with your sexuality, so it's about time people just accepted it, and stopped trying to find reasons and excuses for it.

Answer 8

What you stated was true somewhat. What some said is false. Bisexuals do exist. Their attraction to one sex or the other maybe stronger or less but exist all the same.Society has an annoying habit of wanting to put people in a box whether they fit or not.The late Dr.Fritz Klein wrote "The Bisexual Option" to enlighten the uninformed. Peace.

Answer 9

I am bi-sexual. I have always been equally attracted to men and women. I can't even imagine just being attracted to women. Just like I can't imagine just being attracted to men. I am not gay or straight, so there has to be such a thing as bi-sexual.

Answer 10

Um, very false. If I'm automatically gay, that doesn't really explain why I like dick so much. And if I'm automatically straight, that doesn't really explain why I like pu$$y so much. Some people are just stupid and can't deal with any situation where there is not an either/or answer. So they blather on about something they know nothing about and basically tell me that I must be too stupid to know my own feelings on the matter. Trust me, I'm bi, I am 100% sure. These people need to stop trying to tell me who I am to make themselves feel better.