I dont feel we have any control who we are attracted to,as long as we don't act on it. What are your thoughts?
2006-06-15 15:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it is a normal thing to be attracted to people that you work with, and admire. We get into discussions, sometimes even physically rub against each other in tight quarters, so yes, we DO become attracted to co-workers. How we handle that attraction is what makes the difference. It must be handled in a professional way, especially if we're married. It's not always easy, but is always necessary.
2006-06-15 15:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I beg your pardon, but yes, you do have control over your feelings.
Choose...do the right thing by your spouse and enjoy this friend at work, OR leave your spouse and enjoy the friend at work and in other places, too.
It's flattering and an ego boost when someone enjoys talking and being with you. That does not mean you need to wreck a marriage for something that might just be a platonic friendship. Get a grip!
2006-06-15 15:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. We have no control over attraction. And as you said, as long as you don't act on it, there isn't a problem. I see a lot of guys that I'm attracted to for various reasons, but have never made a move to carry it any further than just acquaintances.
2006-06-15 15:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by josie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. You just have to be responsible and not act on any feelings. You need to be faithful to your spouse and if you can't then you need to go. But yes it is common.
2006-06-15 15:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct in that we don't have any control over who we are attracted to. It just happens. Giving in to it is when more trouble than you can imagine happens, which eventually leads to deep regret.
2006-06-15 15:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Justjam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is likely but it remains up to the individual to realise this is a fantasy and not to act on any feelings that they may have towards this person
2006-06-15 15:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannot help attraction.we will be attracted 2 many different people thoughout our lives but what seperates us from animals is the ability 2 not give into temptation n do something stupid.
2006-06-15 15:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kno that is normal and just dont cheat on her and well yeah dont let it get out of hand and well yeah just deal with it i mean if it starts then i suggest u tell ur wife, get a divorce, or hav sum fun with her just to remind u that thats the woman that u fell in luv with
2006-06-15 15:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by i_luv_ca2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!!! If you are attracted to someone outside of your marriage I'd say you'd better question the quality of your love, repect and honor for your partner.
2006-06-15 15:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea because u r just so used 2 being with them and have gotten used to them.
2006-06-15 15:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by hottie101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋