my mom does no tknow!
2006-06-15 15:21:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anissa J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 15 and pregnant..... and my baby cuzin was 9 when she got pregnant and she is now 13 with a 3 year old. ur nopt alone. you must tell ur mother that you are pregnant so you can get prenatal care for ur child immediatly. tell ur mom, and dont wait for the rite time cuz to you there may neve be a rite time. it will be hard and she mite cry but u have to do it. trust me after u tell her u feel ALOT better. ways u can tell her is maybe rite a note or take her out to a public place and tell her so she wont yell in front of ppl. its very hard to relize in 9 months ur gunna be called"mommy" in my case ill be called that 2wice as many..........if u need more advice or if u juss wanna swap stories just e-mail me, ill be ur friend.
2006-06-15 15:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does your heart tell you? I feel that you need to tell your mom, maybe there is someone from a church you are able to confide in first. It may be easier to have someone there with you. As far as the future, many people want children...adoption is a great thing. Remember that keeping this baby may sound fun, but could be very selfish in the long run. There is a beautiful life growing in you...yes a LIFE! Abortion will not take care of the issue, but only create a larger more life damaging one. God Bless!
2006-06-15 22:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by howlingwind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mom. Because even if you don't tell her now, she will most likely find out. She might also be a little disappointed, like one of my friend's mom, but then she'll get over it and support and help you. Because that's what happened with that friend of mine. And if at first its hard 4 her 2 understand, just give her time. But overall, no matter what, have your baby. Because there are a lot of girls who abort, and then regret it the rest of their lifes. But if you need to talk to anyone, you can always e-mail me. I'll be very happy to help you. Good luck.
2006-06-15 22:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mother as soon as possible. She will be mad at first, expect that. But she is your mother and she loves you. After the reality of it kicks in she is going to be there for you and help you through this time. Don't put yourself down. Every one makes mistakes.When I was 15 I found myself facing a similar problem but I was lucky, I only thought I was pregnant and found out that i really wasn't. You need your momma right now. Tell her.
2006-06-15 22:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by heavens_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a girl who got pregnant when she was 14, she had a gorgeous daughter when she was 15... She still is 15 and she chose to raise her daughter... She told her parents she got raped so they wouldn't get mad...
Tell your parents sooner rather than later, they would much rather know now than when you give birth...
You have to decide whether you want to raise the baby or not... If you don't, you have to decide whether or not you want to give birth... These aren't small decisions, you should think very seriously about them...
How long have you been pregnant?
Is the baby's father willing to help you raise him/her?
Will you have financial support?
Are your parents willing to help you?
Do you know who the father is?
If I were in your position (I'm 16) I'd have the baby and raise it... But that's only what I'd do...
2006-06-15 22:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you to do ( I had my first child when I was 15 ) is TALK TO YOUR MOM. Regardless of what you think you want to do right now it will be very critical to know b4 hand wether or not your MOM will support you in whatever choice you make. Good luck.
2006-06-15 22:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILD!!!!! i tell you what baby......you should tell your mother. my sister got pregnet at 16 and she had no other choice than to tell my mom. abortion is NOT the answer. once you get pregnet you have a human being living inside of you, abortion is a form of murder sweetie. if you dont want the baby.... give it up for adoption, if you do want to keep the baby, i declare blessings over your live and the life of your child! in the name of jesus!
2006-06-15 22:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by SAY WHAT!?!?!? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really tell your mom, because i am 15 and i thougt i was pregnet, but i really wasnt but anyway it didn't turn out as bad as i thought because they were there to support me even though i made a mistake and hopefully the same thing happens for you good luck with everything!!!
2006-06-15 22:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by blue_eyed_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom first. then decide whether or not to keep it or not.You also need to talk with the father to see if he is going to help. And make sure you are pregnant first but still tell your mom. You are way to young to be having sex you need to watch after yourself and think about what is best for your child.They come with a lot of responsibilities!!!!
2006-06-15 22:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your mother, that is assuming you are not from an abusive family, if so you need to contact someone who can help you deal with your family. you need to talk to somebody. if you are carrying this baby you need medical attention to keep you and the baby healthy. you need to serious think about if you are ready to stick to this motherhood thing. it is not as easy as you may think. i was 21 when i had my first and she sucker punched everything i had n mind rite out. i am now 27 going on four, still single, 2 diff baby daddy one is a cumplete bum the other takes care of his part. if this boy is not going to help you financially you are in for an even tougher ride than you can imagine. it is possible and there is help for you, and there is also adoption. i will pray about you.
2006-06-15 22:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋