wanting a baby!!?

Question

we want a baby so badly there is nuthin wrong with either of us hubby got checked and so did i so what is the problem with me getting pregnant sometimes i feel that i am so stressed out..i know i am not suppose to be so stressed but i am.....

Answer 1

Please read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand what is going on with your body and may be enough by itself to help you get pregnant. Even if not, the information will help you determine what is or isn't happening with your body and may save you time, effort, and discomfort if you do need fertility treatment.

Answer 2

My husband and I are going through the same problem. I have an irregular period though and have been seeing a doc. We are starting w/ me (he hasn't been checked). The doc. gave me some med. to start my period and then has me taking Clomid a fertility drug for ovulation. I wish you both luck. It's hard and frustrating I know. It's hard to be patient b/c we want a little one just as bad. As far as stress hell, then maybe my husband should have the baby!!! Just breathe every once in awhile and relax as much as you can. Pray about it. That's all I know to offer if both of you are fine. Just pinpoint your ovulation and have sex centering around that day and during ovulation. Good luck and God Bless you both.
People are going to tell you don't do this and don't do that, but better yet it's ok to think about it hell your trying, I'm on fertility you have no choice, it doesn't matter if you think about it or not. I have heard that missionary, and well, putting a pillow under you booty and lying there after sex helps. Now, the missionary is true, I actually found that on webmd.com. As far as the pillow ehh, you can try it. I'll trying anything at this point.

Answer 3

Have you or hubby considered therapy? I'm not being sarcastic. I'm serious. This is a tough time for both of you. Maybe talking to a councilor or therapist might be helpful for you. It might help you sort out some of the things that are running through your head. Check to see if your insurance covers this.

What about trying a yoga class or a massage? These also might be covered by your insurance (plus a co-pay) and might help you relax a little.

Answer 4

I know this may sound more than a bit corny to some people but I believe God is keeping you from having a baby at this moment for reason is that he wants you and your hubby to settle personal problems first before the two of you decide to start a family. Don't rush into it right now, keep your cool and before you know it it'll happen. I reassure it.

Answer 5

well there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS

Answer 6

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 7

The key to having a baby is timing and a bit of relaxation.

A woman's fertile period has cycles, meaning it has a peak period. Going hammer and tongs at it during this period will mean a higher chance of conceiving!

When that time arrives book into a country retreat where you can relax in a spa, have a romantic dinner, etc.

Join this free Ovulation calender to figure out your most fertile period.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/p/163/index5.html

Answer 8

All I can tell you is to take your time less stress is better. We tried for over a year and nothing, but i have 3 children now. It will happen don't get to stressed. relax and everything will work out.

Answer 9

Just let it go...(meaning the whole trying to make it happen) and it will...friends of mine stressed over it so long they just decided to adopt...3 months after adopting a little girl they found out they were pregnant...Go to an island and just get your freak on...not cause u want a baby but just cause you wanted each other.

Have some freaky fun girl...

Answer 10

well never happens when your trying, its when you least expect it, i know you said he was checked. but if your having sex to often trying really hard, then he might have a low sperm count likewise if he smokes, go to the drug store and for like 30$ you Can buy an at home sperm count kit, it really works. and maybe it is that and then you can have him follow some steps to get it increased, but if not just stop thinking about it, it makes sex boring and a chore ratrher then fun and exciting for both of you