i want to have sex but i dont have a boyfriend
2006-06-15 15:11:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Losing your virginity is a very big thing. Once it's gone you can never get it back and believe me when I say this. You should consider your virginity a very rare and special jewel and only to be share with someone very special. Don't follow the crowd if that's what you're doing and don't do it out of curiosity. Hold on your virginity as long as you can and when the time is right share it. If you lose your virginity with just any ole Tom, Dick or Harry later is life when you're a lot more mature you will look back and regret giving it up so freely and without thought.
2006-06-15 15:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by whatIthink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God girl... how old are you and what the hell is the rush???? Don't have sex just because you want to try it.... having sex, expecially the first time, should be done with somebody you care about.... it's not just a 'wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am' thing... what is it with young people today!!!????
If you're THAT horny.. or think you are.. masterbate.... go buy a sex toy.. use a banana.... a hot dog... a cob of corn... cucumber.. something... at least you won't get pregnant!!!!
Sex is about caring... joy.... sensuality... love... it's not just about getting off just because you can... wait.... and only do it when the time is right.. for now, explore self stimulation... it's safer.. no chance of getting pregnant.. no STD's involved... no commitment... relax!
2006-06-15 15:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good that you havent had sex.why?becuz if & when you get married your husband/wife will be excited that youve saved yourself for them.having sex isnt everything.its just a pleasure.dont feel bad its kool.remember you dont have to worry about AIDS or SEXUAL TRANSMITTED DISEASE,NOR HAVING KIDS.ITS ALL ABOUT BEING SAFE.ok sorry i miss the rest of your question.well just dont have sex with anybody make sure its who you really like or you maybe screwed.cuz there are men that will **** you & leave you alone.if you are a man you are kool cuz what women wouldnt want a virgin for a boyfriend.that more tricks she can teach you.
2006-06-15 15:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweetmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone, but it is never good to just go and have a one night stand. Take care of yourself and dont feel like you have to rush to have sex. Just wait!! And when it happens use protection.
2006-06-15 15:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by v_marie2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a hurry to have sex! I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss. You should wait until you're married or until you find someone that you love. Your first time should be special; once you lose your virginity, you can never get it back. Just be patient!
2006-06-15 16:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kassie Leann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you meet the right guy... Don't just have sex without knowing the person, because you could get an STD.
2006-06-15 15:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex? It should be saved for marriage to be shared with the one you love and are spending the rest of your life with. All the diseases and terribel things out there, it just is not worth it at all.
2006-06-15 15:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you see, after you get a boyfriend that you know you can live with forever and ever and ever, marry him. Then have sex.
2006-06-15 15:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young. don't worryabout it. the boyfriend will come and if it right then the sex. don't rush you have the rest of your life ahead of you. and if you do always have protected sex alot std's floating around out there
2006-06-15 15:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just masturbate. Have sex when you are in a good relationship. Do not force yourself to have it with just anyone. You will feel like trash if you do that.
2006-06-15 15:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋