ladies,am i a good fiance?
I tell her (name) i love you with all my heart and i am ever thankful the day you stepped into my life. buy her flowers, candy, stuff toy. give her a massage. listen to what she has to say, listen to her problems without trying to solve them for her. take her out for a romantic picnic under the stars or by the beach. write her poems, songs or a romantic letter or email. call her on the phone to let her know that im thinking of her.spend time with her instead of going out with friends. compliment her on her looks, cooking,etc. give her a kiss. watch girly movies with her and hold close when the sad part comes on. im understanding to her feelings and i try to be nice if she feels upset or is having one of those mood swings.
I am not like this every day. some things are done every once in a while so i can surprise her.hehe.
any advice for me? :)
thanks for your help ladies.
2006-06-15 14:42:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It doesn't sound like you need any advice. You sound too good to be true. She's very lucky! Keep up the good work and don't think you should stop when you get married.
2006-06-15 14:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by wishorstish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you sound pretty mushy. I mean, that kind of stuff is nice on Valentine's Day, or her birthday.. but on non-holidays, that's a lot. You're acting like a girlfriend, but one that's in love with her. Plus, you shouldn't be taking time and energy away from your own pursuits to wait on her; she fell in love with YOU and not with the pampering. If you have to ask this question online, I'm assuming it's because you feel like your relationship is off-balance, so try and give yourselves a little space.
At the same time, you sound like a really caring guy, which is awesome. Just make sure you don't hold any of this against her. She's not required to love you eternally, sleep with you, or anything else just because you loved and cared for her so intensely.
Best of luck to you and your fiance!!
2006-06-15 14:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by winifredbaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-09 03:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like one hell of a guy... but make sure you keep a happy medium and you don't get to far away from the person you really are inside. Chivalry is nice and wonderful.. but you could also be overdoing it.... don't let her mistake you kindness for weakness...
you could be too soft for her when she is really wanting a manly man......I hope you two can make a go of it.. and she doesn't end up taking advantage of your sweetness. This is how good guys get burned.
2006-06-28 19:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Parisshiloh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm not a lady- but I couldn't resist. Judging from all of that crap you say you do, I really hate to break it to you but all signs point to GAY. When you say you watch girly movies with her and hold her close during the sad part, I'm wondering how you were affected by Brokeback Mountain??
2006-06-15 14:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by kingofnewport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I have advice. Grow your own and make some friends. How can she love a dude that is there to just service her? You gotta make some time for yourself because someday soon either she or you will get tired of it all. Or she will think that is all you have to offer her and move on.
2006-06-15 15:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by forgetfulmouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need any advice! You are the real deal. Sounds like you are doing an awesome job. You might think of leaving her little love notes everywhere, like in her car, drawers, on the bathroom mirror, in a coat pocket........
2006-06-29 12:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by valkyria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need any advise. She's a fool if she lets you go. You are a sweetheart. You need to help my man. Have you thought about classes for other unfortunate men that are pigs? lol Keep up the good work. You are fine.
2006-06-29 00:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you need no further help in this area. My only advice would be to try your hardest not to fight and be impatient with your love. It's awesome that you do these things. Keep up the good work and don't stop until you die being true to yourself and your lover.
Good Luck!
2006-06-15 15:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by koala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can actually say what your girl needs, but too much of it may smother her, give her a little air to breath, she may need to be alone once in a while and then talk to you about things later, your very attentive to her needs, this is a plus, not gay.
2006-06-26 07:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by nadine_forbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋