2006-06-15 14:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by jc23j5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok now I'm older and i hope wiser, so let me tell you as just a suggestion, what I would do. You are feeling rejected because you for what ever reason have been rejeted.
We all have been at one, or more times in our life. I have learned that sometimes you give too much and get in return too little. Women tend to give as thier nature the best of themselves, and think it will be given back the same. But it does not work that way.
You have to think you are worthy of the best of treatment, expect that and that is what you will receive. If this does not happen it was not meant to to be no matter how much you think it should. Now what to do !
be soooo good to yourself, treat yourself to everything you want and deserve. I would improve myself to the point where I was so proud of me, that I felt that anyone that didn't want to bend over backwards to desire me is not worthy of all my special gifts, I would work hard to develope myself. You won't feel lonely any more because you are now secure in your self and expect more, than the norm. God gave you special talents why are you not deveoping them?
When you have talents to give you wont settle for just anyone that comes your way. Yes this takes time and work, but u go thru time and work with everything else, why not work on youself for a change? Men when they are just starting out work on them selves to develope something to give to thier potential spouse, thier true love. They just use other women untill they see and know a women of value. Be that woman!.
Find out what you have always wanted and all ways wanted to be and go for it.... You are here for a purpose find it. From this day forward live your life the way you want it, the right man will come your way and jump over hoops to get to you. True love is like a train that you can't stop don't you want to feel that? Work on yourself and what makes you happy and fullfilled, He is there waiting for someone just like you in that same place. Then and only then will you mesh instead of you always giving too much, and getting to little.
I know with good friends and family that only wish you the best in life are waiting for u to come out of your shell, Show them what your made of. I believe in you, So go for it! You make your own life don't depend on anyone else to determine how u should live it. Take Care Maryanne
2006-06-15 15:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Maryanne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First consider the way you are feeling. Do you really deserve it? Second get angry use all of those neg emotions to force yourself to try new things. Three be thankful that you got rid of the people who are making you feel this way. Gotta ask yourself are they really worth it. Stop beating yourself up the only one who's gonna care about you is you. Good luck
2006-06-15 21:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one does anything to you that you dont allow them to do.if you really want to better things for yourself you have the power to do that,dont put yourself in situations to be rejected,its ok to be alone,use the time to fix things about you that you would like to change.do things that you enjoy doing,write a letter to yourself put it all down as to why you feel down write some realistic goals for yourself to accomplish.you can do anything you want to do if you want too! just as you are in a funk which is only a feeling that will pass,but you have to work at that.i dont know you,and i believe you can motivate yourself to do great things!!!! keep your head up!
2006-06-15 22:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out of the house and go do something you consider "fun". Sitting there alone makes anybody get in a funk! Go where people are talking, and laughing. MAKE yourself get out if necessary! Do it because you HAVE to do it, or go nuts one. I have had to MAKE myself do things before, but thankfully, not now! Good Luck! Have you left yet???, lol. Please do....
2006-06-15 21:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on over to my house....you'll get a hug and a person to let you vent it all out. And on top of that you will get junkfood, comfort food and a ton of people to help make you laugh. Life is so short, do what makes you happy. Hugs!
2006-06-15 21:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Vixxxen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually eat chocolate ice-cream with lots of whipped cream and hot fudge. But if you're depressed, please seek professional help, no ammount of whipped cream can help depression.
2006-06-15 21:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by a_little_syco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with friends or do something you enjoy!
2006-06-15 21:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by football_crazy_62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attack and destroy a small country
2006-06-15 21:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't..............find a cliff and jump off
2006-06-15 21:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by funeehaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋