You are a Teen Father at the age of 20
If your mother in law made a $1,000 payment for your baby because her daughter, your wife lost your baby in her 4th month pregnancy. You and your wife had the chance to give it up to the hospital for donation(the baby) because you couldnt afford the funeral. Your mother and law doesn't think its right so she makes the payment for the funeral. She knows you dont have the money for all the funeral payments. You are also having trouble with money and car. But she knows you have saved college money in the Bank. She doesnt ask you for a payment, not even a penny. Should you as the father, get money out of your bank (remember you only have 7 thousand) and pay it back to her? She might not be asking you for it, but you know she too is having trouble herself.
2006-06-15 14:37:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would pay it back asap so you don't have to wonder about it any more. If she tells you to keep it; then it wasn't a loan. If she accepts it; then she expected to be paid back. I've learned that lesson a few times:) goodluck. Sorry about the baby.
2006-06-15 14:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by amereilly 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Get ready for over time work. Maybe your wife can get a job at a college that way you can go free. That is how it works I know I work at one that is how it is done. Offer to make small payments; that is all you can do.
2006-06-15 21:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, pay for the funeral and do what ya know is right. I think you already know the answer to your question...
2006-06-15 21:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by HowlinRob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer her the money
2006-06-15 21:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋