although i have fantasies about being with men i have never told her about my fantasies
2006-06-15 14:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by make_me_sweat_692002 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok, lets break this down.
You're bisexual, or at least bicurious, because you like men.
Your girlfriend is an obviously intelligent person and is trying to get you to just admitt to it, so she's probably figured it out herself.
And you're what? Worried? Confused? Why don't you try being honest? Say yeah, you've thought about it and see where it leads you. I don't know what all the drama is for, most bi men would kill for such a cool and supportive girlfriend.
2006-06-15 14:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe your girlfriend just wants to make sure.. she may have some clues already or perhaps she's also asking that to herself (Freud might refer to it as projection- or the unconscious transfer of feelings (esp. undesirable) to somebody else).
Some people may think that having homosexual fantasies is absurd if you are a "straight" guy... nevertheless, that can be considered as "plain fantasy" if you don't have the heart to do it.
It pays to be honest. Just tell her. She can understand if she's wise enough and that will make her understand you more. No serious problem will surface if she's confident that you love her much...
2006-06-15 14:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people's faces and eyes tell a lot more than they think. This girl is obviously very good at reading your subconscious. Go with your instincts on this one. She'll be able to see a troubled look from you.
2006-06-15 17:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to threat he's many times asking you approximately your boyfriend to easily remember to have not have been given one? (an odd thank you to circulate approximately it, even though it would desire to be achievable) And whilst he mentions different adult adult males liking you, he's probably waiting to hearken to your reaction. so as that in case you do by some potential like considered one of them, it would supply him a warning to circulate into opposite(or attempt tougher to be purely like them/extra useful, probably)... or in case you do unlike a number of of them, he will take it as an threat to get you to love him. Do you like this guy? if so, you will desire to ask him (no longer suddenly - according to threat if he mentions the adult adult males liking you back or if it sort of feels applicable on your subject rely) if he likes all and sundry. that would desire to offer him a sprint which you're thinking if he's on the market. in case you do unlike him, then purely point out, whilst he mentions those adult adult males liking you back, or approximately your 'boyfriend,' which you're no longer attracted to all and sundry perfect now...
2016-12-13 16:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she wants to make sure you're happy
2006-06-16 07:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a guy or a girl?
2006-06-15 15:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by trikster85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋