Everytime I go somewhere he always asks me who i saw, if he dont know them who they are how old they are and if i thought they were hott and then he will ask if i did ne thing with them!
2006-06-15 14:05:15 · 17 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
he's insecure and is afraid you will find someone better than him....
2006-06-15 14:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really need to take a step back. Think about if your friend came to you and asked you the same question. What would you tell her? You have to let me know that you are not okay with his constant questioning. Some questioning is okay, because it shows he cares about you. If he trusts you he would have to ask you if you did anything with them.
Also, when he asks if they were hot, be honest! If they were say yes. Tell him that by asking you all the time he is making you more likely to hide things, because his paranoia makes you fear his negative reaction.
Last thing, he may have some self esteem issues, and he wants constant reassurance from you. It is good to give him some security, but he has to chill a little.
2006-06-15 21:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by bluejtrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he can't let you go anywhere without knowing ALL the details, he's showing you he doesn't trust you. Yes, he is too controlling. This comes from a feeling of helplessness. He needs to get help.
2006-06-15 21:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess Cerridwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's either a control freak, or too jealous, to me. There can be any number of reasons for this,but chances are he's insecure. And that in itself isn't anything to worry about. BUt his controlling behavior is. If he trusts you he shouldn't question you. Trust me.
2006-06-15 21:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by mastertiger31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I believe you know the answer to this question yourself. He needs to lighten up on his jealousy. Let him know that he can trust you. Having a boyfriend that needs to question your every move and thought is not healthy. Talk with him and figure out why he is so insecure. Good luck!
2006-06-15 21:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, then you probably already know the answer. He doesn't sound controlling, but he does sound too possessive and jealous.
2006-06-15 21:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People complain in comunication
I just think what is not correct just exist
He's worried that he might be dating a ... a ... (can't find a word that is not unorthodox)
Proove to him ur not a (unorthodox word) and u'll build trust
2006-06-15 21:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by UreBozz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is controlling. I think he is nosy. Or you can say curious. My boyfriend and I live together so whenever I'm not home when I should-He would worry and call to see if I'm okay. I think he loves you much.
2006-06-15 21:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is he controlling, but sounds insecure. If you don't mind this, then your relationship is fine. If it does bother you, tell him about it. If he wants to change, great! If not, then you're better off in greener pastures.
2006-06-15 21:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think he needs to lighten up, he sounds afraid that he is going to loose you, why not talk it through with him, tell him how you feel
2006-06-15 21:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he sounds like it. I would say so, because you are asking if we think he is, so you probably think he is. Do you think he is? You would know best.
2006-06-15 21:12:50 · answer #11 · answered by KMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋