been married for almost 1 year and husband called it quit and he does not want any of thmemorabilia wedding from the wedding. he wants the gifts from the wedding but not the memories
2006-06-15 13:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by nikikat1112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I gave mine away to close friends and relatives who attended the wedding or that just wanted my stuff. You'd be surprised how many of your friends will take your ex-wedding memorabilia. Maybe it's because they really want it or maybe it's just them being a good friend and it's out of pity.
2006-06-15 13:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by mll804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto as to the friends idea. Maybe save some for your kids? If the divorce isn't final you may want to wait and see if you work it out. You can always get rid of it but can't always get it back.
2006-06-15 13:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep what you like, sell what you don't want and throw the rest away. Not to be cynical but basically sounds like that's what he is doing. Besides you'll always have the memories, you don't need the reminders.
2006-06-15 13:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by passion8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put it all in a little box, and I have since given it to my daughter, because she was so young when we got divorced... She loves all that junk and its a part of her history, and to let her know that we once really loved eachother and that this was a very special day for both of us.
2006-06-15 13:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by TryMe1st_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack it away in a box for someone who might want it some day.Or ask his family if they'd like to have it. Personally I wouldn't want any of it. I'd have no problem dumping it.
2006-06-15 14:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him any gifts from his side of the family. The memorabilia, I guess if he doesn't want it, you decide.
2006-06-15 14:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep all the gifts and burn the rest. It is your stuff. The relationship is in the dump so dump the stuff.
2006-06-15 13:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. Do you associate good memories with them, then you can box them and put them away, otherwise just give them away.
Goodluck!!
2006-06-15 13:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 50 or compromise some how here!
2006-06-15 13:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋