I feel like my husband is not looking at me as pretty, just like im just there. What can I do to make myself fell better and look better?
2006-06-15 13:48:05 · 25 answers · asked by Mommy again! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am sure he loves you more than ever, you are having his baby...you are pretty... you are a pregnant beauty... all pregnant woman have something in their face and eye that make them so pretty...
do not worry
2006-06-15 13:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember one very important thing about being pregnant, right now there is a glow about you that makes you an even more beautiful creature then you can see. There is a mystery about pregnant women that many men do not understand, that is the mystery of life it's self. So when you look in the mirror next time smile because you are beautiful and soon you will have a beautiful little person to smile with you. Hope ya get feeling better.
2006-06-15 13:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Beast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel this way when you are pregnant and beginning to really show. However I think there is nothing more beautiful than a pregnant woman. You have a wonderful glow that other non-pregnant women do not have. It shines from the very center of your being. For yourself, you can have facials, have your hair done regularly, buy pretty clothes, but you have an inner beauty that surpasses all the embellishments.
2006-06-15 14:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may "feel" unpretty, be careful not to project your own mindset upon your husbands feelings. When my bride was carrying our children, I thought she just glowed attractive, I tried to constantly encourage her even though there were times she did not "feel" pretty. I can not imagine what it feels like to get all stretched out of your usual shape, but from your husbands point of view, hopefully he sees just how incredibly beautiful a woman with child is. Hang in there your 2/3s of the way there, then you can take back control of your body.
2006-06-15 14:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by timberghost61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could put on a dress to become more feminine. Wear little makeup. Just be a woman and maybe your husband will see you in a new way and you will feel better cause you getting all dolled up because you can and having a child is about being a woman too. Just celebrate being a woman.
2006-06-15 13:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's freaking...you've totally changed and he's got guy issues. "Is she going to snap back into shape?" I'm feel guilty that I'm not attracted to her like this" "Am I going to hurt the baby?" "Why is she so emotional, I can't stand it" I feel guilty that she's uncomfortable and I'm fine but selfish" Stuff like that. Don't make yourself attractive for him, make yourself attractive for you. You are having an amazing experience that he'll never get. Be selfish, get an easy hair do (no dies or perms though), do your beautiful nails, get a prenatal massage, swim often, and buy pretty maternity clothes and really great shoes or sandals. Let him know that birth jewelry is always good.
2006-06-15 14:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by JypseyJody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just don't know how to make their wife feel good in this time. Just remember you are beautiful, I know this can be difficult, especially if your feet are swollen and you no longer fit in all your old clothes (that can be depressing in its self). Try surrounding yourself with people who care about you. A shopping spree never hurt..lol. How about a day getting the works..your hair, manicure, pedicure, a facial. And besides beauty is only skin deep!
2006-06-15 13:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by rdsxgrl04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your OB. He/She should know. You sound like you are depressed. If you are, your Dr. should be able to give you something to make you feel better. It will not hurt the baby if your Dr. prescribes it.
Your husband probably just doesn't know how to respond to your "new development". If you are very young - a lot of guys just don't know what to say and do. Ask him how he feels. Try to be extra cuddly and tell him you need him. Being pregnant can seem like a one sided thing sometimes.
But most important -- -- Tell Your Dr. If You Are Depressed.
2006-06-15 13:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by deborah m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure my wife went through this very same thing with our son. It may depend on the husband but, when my wife was pregnant she was the most beautiful woman in the world to me. She shares my greatest joys and I share hers. I would think that any husband would feel the same way.
2006-06-15 13:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a pregnancy massage to help you relax.
Get a makeover.
Get a pedicure or a manicure.
Have sex with your husband! Once that baby gets here you won't be doing much of that for a little while. A few hours of sleep will be yours and your husband's fondest desire.
2006-06-15 14:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, he broke your hymen. (Popped your cherry) that is what occurs once you lose your virginity. If I undergo in concepts properly, I bled somewhat the first time I had sex, and much the second one time I had sex a million or 2 days later. you at the instantaneous are not pregnant. Use condoms!! And in case you'll proceed being sexually energetic, get on birth control!
2016-11-14 20:13:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋