I have been unfaithful
2006-06-15 13:31:35 · 18 answers · asked by alcatraz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People can change and people do make mistakes. It's really up to you and how much you want to change and really put effort into your marriage and your wife. You may need counseling to work through what you have done and counseling certainly could help rebuild your marriage.
2006-06-15 13:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily, if you have been unfaithful and don't think that you can control yourself then maybe you shouldn't be married. Or find out what has caused you to be unfaithful and fix it. If you truly love your wife then you will try to do anything to keep the love that you two share.
2006-06-15 13:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by simeonxavia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases yes but not always. If the unfaithful one wants to change and is truly sorry and remoresful and gets the help they need then yes they can change and if they become a Christian this can change them too! It all depends on the person and who they are!
2006-06-15 13:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will a donkey always be a donkey? That's an obvious answer. The question is..."Will in this relationship with you, could he control his behavior toward women knowing he already screwed up once?" The answer is: that depends on you. If you took him back without consequences for his actions (because you love him) then I say.. there is a good chance he'll do it again. If you were the stronge woman and set ground rules for the next....actually...scratch that. Truth is...I have enough respect for myself not to have it happen the first time. Kick that cheater to the curb.
2006-06-15 13:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he will always be unfaithful if you address the problem that made him stray in the first place. If you don't fix what caused him to stray then the likely hood of it happening again in my opinion is great!
2006-06-15 13:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I was unfaithful and the love of my life left me. If we were ever to get back together, I'd never dream of straying again.
You don't know what you've got till it's gone.
2006-06-15 13:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once dated a married man (sad / sorry to say). I just got out of a long term relationship, and was hurting bad. I really did not care about the other woman at the time. He was not happy in his marriage, and he told me all about his life. When I grew up, I moved on. Today he has two girlfriends, and is still married! I hope that answers your question!
2006-06-15 13:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by nygnut2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...anyone can change. but they have to be willing to change. they have to want to change. they have to be willing to put everything they are into it. or else they wont change. so does that fit for you? if it doesn't and you think theres a good chance that you're going to be unfaithful again, then give your spouse a break. don't prolong the agony.
2006-06-15 13:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Gossamer Moondancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is true. I think it really depends on the person and whether or not they are willing to be faithful. However I also think that it is easier to cheat a second time than it is to do it the first time.
2006-06-15 13:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by passion8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dr phil, says no, if you really want to change.
but for me, once a man i love is unfaithful to me, i would choose that he would keep doing it.
2006-06-15 13:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋