im underage and i might be pregnant.. what do i do?

Answer 1

first get a pregnancy test. if you are then you must tell your parents because believe it or not they are the only ones that can help you. its not like they are not going to find out anyways. they will tell when your tummy starts to swell. and even if you say oh ill get an abortion you need parental consent. dont do anything without considering your options fully. you made the mistake so you're going to have to deal with it.

Answer 2

Tell you parents first, see a doctor 2nd, and 3rd tell you partner. If you are pregnant you have a lot of decisions to make and one is DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION!! There are plenty of people looking to adopt and you and your parents may look at everything from keeping your baby to open or closed adoption.

The reason you do not want to have an abortion is as follows: believe me that you will in the future see children that would be the same age as your child would have been and the pain would come back over and over and over that a doctor murder a life that could have been great. With adoption there is also pain, but also joy because your child might find you or you find them later and life and see the joy they have had having a full life with parents that have loved them.

If you are not pregnant, you need to make some strong choices too. The first is not to put yourself in that situation again regardless until you are much older and married. The 2nd is to make sure that your boyfriends know that on the front end and know why. You may think it will limit your social life and it may to a point but you will find a stable caring young man in the future that will hear you and learn to love you for yourself regardless of the mistakes you have made.

Good luck and use wisdom in your decisions.

Answer 3

Talk to your parents, doctor or some other adult you can trust and get a pregnancy test. You will have to wait until your missed period to know if you are pregnant or not, but if you are pregnant you will have to decide if you want to keep the child, go with adoption or end the pregnancy. Whatever you decide should feel right to you, think about your own dreams and how a child would fit in with that right now.
And if you aren't pregnant I hope you will stop having sex until you are older and willing to accept the consequences of having sex because no matter what you decide if you are pregnant your life will change for ever because of your actions.

Answer 4

First find out if you are. If you don't feel comfortable with talking to your parents go to Planned Parenthood or Family Planning. Adults have more resources to help you out. You need to look at your options and decide what is best for your child, not just you. You have the option to have an abortion but that will very well haunt you for the rest of your life. You also have the option of an open adoption where your child knows you as her birth mother and you are allowed a certain amount of time each week with her. Look into your options and make the right choice. You made the wrong choice to have sex without protecting yourself don't make another bad choice by not talking to an adult and finding out what your options are

Answer 5

Don't freak out. You have many options. First, tell a trusted friend, so she can help you emotionally if you need the support. Make sure this friend will not spread rumors. Purchase a pregnacy test at any drugstore, and then find out. If you are pregnant, you can do a few things. Get an abortion, put the baby up for adoption, or keep it. I suggest one of the first to, because a baby would rob you of your youth, but any of these choices work, so try not to stress.

Answer 6

Find out for sure and tell an adult you trust if you are. Don't listen to ANYONE else when it comes time to make a decision. You will have to live with whatever decision you make, they WON"T. I had an abortion when I was 17. Now, 18 years later, I still have no regrets about it, I do NOT look at children that are about the same age mine would have been and regret it. I don't think that makes me a horrible person, it makes me a person who made a decision I could live with. Good luck. And be MUCH MORE careful in the future. Learn the lesson this time.

Answer 7

im 15 and pregnant..... and it is very scary but it doesnt have to mean a bad thing first thing you MUST do is tell your mom, once u get over that it will be alot better, dont wait for the right time cuz to you it may never be the rite time. if u need tips on how to tell ur mom juss e-mail me. take a prregnancy test they are at stores that have pharmacys like k-mart or a grocery store or walgreens, CVS, eckerd, etc. dont get one from the dollar store. if u have sum 1 u can trust have them be withu while u take it. EPT's are real good. but find ot if u are and then handle it from there, if u are make sure ur mother knows, that is very importanat, please dont consider abortion, you wanna give ur child a chance to live, but dont stress about it, because that can pospone ur period, and also u will notice that u pick up on lil things goin on in ur body and may substitute that as pregnancy, dont think ur stomach is getting bigger cuz its not until like ur 4th or 5th month, it may juss be bloatedness which is a sign of pregnancy, also if u notice getting sleepy alot. i neva had any of those symptoms just sleepy alot, but i do hope ur not pregnant cuz u do have all ur life to have children. im not gunna judge u, even if i wasnt pregnant i wouldnt judge u because we are all imperfect humans and we all make mistakes, i wish u the best of luck. e-mail me if u need sum 1 to talk to or juss havent pregnancy questions. HOLLA!!

Answer 8

First of all, don't abort. It's dangerous, it could could haunt you for the rest of your life, and besides there are people out there who will be more than happy to raise your baby for you if you choose not to raise it yourself.

Ignore what other people are saying about adoption making a child feel like an outsider - it's bull. I have a friend who is adopted and it makes no difference to them. She's always known about it, and doesn't mind it - the drama that you hear about on TV and stuff, it's not worth taking into account.

Answer 9

I had the same problem and I thought my parents would KILL ME but it was not that way at all. Your family may be mad, but they will get over it and love that baby so much. Do not have an abortion, if you don't want the baby give it up for adoption. It is not worth going to hell for an abortion. So many people can't have babies, give it to them if you dont want it. I wish I could have a baby. You might change someones life. But please tell someone and get to the doctor now.

Answer 10

talk to an adult close to you and if you dont have anyone to talk to then go to a planned parenthood place. dont get an abortion though, i mean if you are pregnant its not the babys fault, so he/she should not be punished for it by you taking his life. I mean there is always the choice of giving it up for adoption. but before you go through all this make sure that you are pregnant, by taking a test or going to the clinic.