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At Young Ages Young Teen Girls Are Having Baby .

2006-06-15 12:32:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

but tell me why do they is it the parents fault 4 not having control of the teens

2006-06-15 12:47:04 · update #1

41 answers

sometimes parents can b blamed sometimes not it also has to with relationship at home. your family should b your friends n your mother your best friend. some parents r not open with their kids to certain things in life sayin they r young but that child is gettin alot of expirience from school on d street etc kids also afarid to ask parents question bcause sometimes d answer is i am busy wait until you r 17 etc so they find someone who will ans their que n even show them fake luv n they accept it. reason they dont get it at home

2006-06-24 10:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Half of the time it has absolutely NOTHING to do with hollywood or the media and NOTHING to do with the parents not controlling their teens. If teens want to have sex, they will find a way....even if they have been locked up in there bedrooms with no communication with anyone, they will find a way....so stop blaming parents who can be innocent or hollywood....its all bullshit.... I can almost bet that half of the ppl out there who look down upon teen parents were having sex at their age as well, so to those ppl...JUST SHUT UP....you have no idea what the hell yous are talking about. Loads of ppl in their 20's, 30's or 40's have 'accidents' and fall pregnant. Sometimes they don't have jobs or a way of supporting themselves, but do they get zoned out?? NO....its acceptable for them to do it... What if a 17 year old falls pregnant to her boyfriend...what if they got married, owned their own house, drive a nice car and earn well over 50 grand a year from one income? It's still frowned upon because they're young...it doesn't matter that they are doing better than a lot of ppl in their 20's or 30's, but because they're young, they're still frowned upon...where's the justice there?

2006-06-15 15:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by bubba boo 2 · 0 0

It is the teens fault for not having control of self
Should wait to have sex
Don't put blame off somewhere else
Are you responsible for what you do or are you a puppet of your parents?

Girls get pregnant because of having sex
No sex No pregnancy
Very simple

If I were you I would be worried about the 50 sexually transmitted diseases common among teens today. Most have no symptoms, some have life long consequences including cancer, you can get them from ANY sexual contact & condoms, even latex, don't protect you from everything

like I said - no sex no problems no pregnancy no disease

2006-06-24 09:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0 0

well most of the teens that get pregnant are just stupid. Most of them do it to get more attention. Yes some, well most of the time it is the parents fault for not giving a rats *** what their teens do. But it also goes both ways. It's also more of the teens fault too. So its really both the teen and the parents' fault.

2006-06-15 13:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2006-06-15 12:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by e_richards_phd 1 · 0 0

most teens don't mean to get pregnant maybe there parents didn't tell them about the birds and the bee's and protection. but i can honestly say that teens find it easier to have baby's because there friends are having babies or they just don't see the point of pursuing a career and the easier just to be a mum at a young age and lazy about all day. well that's my opinion.

2006-06-28 02:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I believe that young girls are getting pregnant because these days young girls are having sex at a very YOUNG age. Plus there so young that they don't know the pro's and con's about having sex. Plus these days girls think that oh it won't happen to me and then a couple weeks later there pregnant. Plus girls are all having sex for all the wrong reasons. If a guy says they love them there ready to jump in bed with them. But don;t worry because one day they'll learn.

2006-06-15 12:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Krystle T 2 · 0 0

I can't speak for others but I can speak for myself. I got PG at 17, my sr yr in high school. Being overweight I was always laughed at and made fun of but others. Low self-esteem and low self-worth contributed to my getting pg. My parents were loving and supportive and were not to blame for MY mistake. It was MY choice to have sex so I had to accept the consequences for my own actions.

The guy was in college and I think I thought I was hot stuff because a college guy was interested in me! He said the right things and made me feel like a queen. We had unprotected sex and I wasn't worried about getting PG because he always
"withdrew" before climaxing. Dumb me for thinking that!

One of the smartest things I did do, though, was finish high school. Sure it was hard raising a son by myself, but with hard work, determination, and supportive partents I managed. I am now 52, retired after 30 years, my son is a lawyer, married with a beautiful daughter and another on the way. Yes, I screwed up but I wasn't going to be a "statistic"!

Oh, the boy that got me PG? He dropped out of college, went back to his home town and I never heard from him again. This was in 1972 and it only goes to show you that the more things change the more they stay the same!

2006-06-28 18:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by txaknababy 1 · 0 0

sometimes they do it because they are looking for love in the wrong places.

Sometimes they think if they have a baby they will have something to love and it will love them back.

Sometimes it feels so good to have sex, that it feels like being loved that they don't think or don't care about the consequences.

Some teens don't get the love and attention they need from their parents or family...

2006-06-28 22:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by ATerribleIdea 5 · 0 0

because teenagers a lead to believe that if they become pregnant there is an easy way out... (im not talking abortion)
If their parents are none supportive then the government will step in and help with social aid.
Girls idiolize becoming parents, before they know whats really in store for them.. sleepless nights, endless dirty diapers, formula, and loosing their freedom.
Sure there are many rewarding factors to being a mom, but I think you should wait till you are old enough to take care of yourself before you jump into the fact that you are no longer the important one, YOUR BABY IS... relaxe there is plenty of time to be a mom!

2006-06-28 09:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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