i went to meet this guy my daughter wanted to date and i talk ed to him about a hour and half . when i got home my husband was mad and said i didn't want to spend any time with him and that i was a ho .
2006-06-15 11:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by sherianne_29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No.
He is a stupid, insecure and totally suspect creature.
I trust that you don't believe everything that comes forth from his asshole; I mean mouth.
2006-06-15 12:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to put up with your husband cursing at you. Your wedding vows state that you will "love, honor, and obey". The word "HONOR" is key here. Was he so insecure that he was jealous that you were talking to your daughter's potential boyfriend as all parents should do? Apparently yes. Also, why is he so hostile at you to call you a "ho"? I suggest you tell him that you will never tolerate that sort of disrespect again. If I ever called my wife a name like that, not only would she pack her bags and take the kids, I'd have a bunch of her relatives knocking at my door to straighten out my attitude. My marriage isn't perfect, but we respect each other. Go to counseling together, if he will submit, because he's got a big problem. Good luck to you, and stand up for yourself.
2006-06-15 19:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he DEFINITELY stepped over the line..BUT..a 400 dollar divorce over a mistake? he was just pissed...he stuffed his foot in his mouth and messed up..I AM not saying you should just take it...or even laugh it off...this is SERIOUS...but if you guys can't talk something like this out..you shouldn't have gotten married...fights happen...get over it..a week from now, a month from now you may be the only one who remebers this...monitor his performance...does he do it over and over again? or did he slip? Look...is it an isolated occurance or has this happened repeatedly...you need to stand up for yourself...and remind him that 911 is VERY easy to dial if he thinks that domestic violence is the answer...DON'T let it get to that level...GET THE HELL OUT if he comes home drunk...REMEMBER...A LATE HUSBAND...IS A DRUNK AND SCREWED HUSBAND...ESPECIALLY IF HE DOESN'T CALL...
2006-06-15 20:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one says file for divorce, blah ,blah ,blah. You start to be nasty right back and if he asked you why you acting like that you tell him- i want you to know how it feels to be in my shoes.
But if he escalades and begins to be even more nasty then you tell him- i don't have to be treated this way, I can survive fine on my own and if this crap does not stop then that is exactly what i plan on doing.-From there you be nice you be you and if he begins again you start packing your stuff and go from there
Good luck and this is going to require being very strong hearted. you don't need it and guess what you don't have to be submitted to that kinda of treatment you are an adult not his child
2006-06-15 19:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by dido45dido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're screening your daughter's potential dates and your husband doesn't want you to?
What a freaking cry-baby. He needs some self-esteem.
Cursing is verbal abuse. You don't have to tolerate it for a second.
2006-06-15 19:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you curse at him? The problem started when you let him curse at you when you were probably only dating. Talk to him. Let him know that you don't like it and it's very disrespectful. and if that does not work..cut off his cable and dent his car. :)
2006-06-15 19:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It couldve been worse, at least he wouldnt put his hands on you. And i dont think you're telling the whole story.
2006-06-15 19:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then this guy seems like he has jealousy problems either he can get treatment for that or you should just leave me for the dirt ball he is
2006-06-15 19:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by mymamarox101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband that it bothers you and ask him nicely to please stop doing this as it is offensive and hurtful to you. You both need marriage counseling too.
2006-06-15 19:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby is insecure, tell him to get over it
2006-06-15 19:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋