Ive never lied to him but Im worried he has the wrong idea about me. What if he thinks Im smarter than I am or better in some other way or finds out something he doesnt like about me?
2006-06-15 11:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not looking for "perfect", i just want you. I dont care how smart you are, or whatever. From what i've learned and seen and felt i like. YAHOO ANSWERS ROMANCE RIGHT HERE PEOPLE-COME READ. See-not a shred of embarrasment! Amanda, i love hearing from you and dont think for a second i dont have the same fears. We just gotta see. Will you take the chance if i do! LOL
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2006-06-15 11:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Dont be so insecure, im the same, but you need to understand that if you havent been misleading him in any way and making him think that your something that your not, then he sees who you really are all on his own, and if hes still around that means he likes what he sees in you. Dont be so paranoid, and dont change yourself into someone youd think he'd want you to be, just be yourself, and if he doesnt like it, tough, theres plenty of more fish in the sea, and if he does then great. But as long as you live your life in your most comfortable skin, you'll live with no regrets and know that at any point in your life you did things that made you happy, not other people. Best advice, a bit cliche, but very true: Be yourself!!! and believe in who you are or who you want to be, but make sure that its for the right reasons, and the best reasons are your own...
2006-06-15 18:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mezee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a thing that happens when we really do represent ourselves as a different person than who we are. As long as you have, and continue to be yourself, he will not get the wrong impressions, and if he thinks that something is different than the way you pportray yourself, you need to correct him. It sounds like you have been doing the right things, just remember that his mind may wander and you need to help put him back on the proper path.
2006-06-15 18:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for most people to set the person they love up on a pedestal, especially early in a relationship. Part of it is that they are blinded by love and part of it is they are trying so hard to let you know how much they love you and support you. It really isn't anything to worry about. Just be you and let them get to know who you are over time. Ultimately everyone finds a few things about the one they love that they don't like but lets face it, none of us are perfect and we all have our faults. If they can't love you for who you are faults and all then they aren't worthy of you any way.
2006-06-15 18:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing almost 2 years ago to the man i now love. Even if it is a white lie or something you are not being totally truthful about, you should make it clear. If he finds out you misdirected him, you could disapoint him or have your relationship based on nothing but lies.
2006-06-15 18:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by K D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the chance that you have to take with every relationship. Caution can be a good thing but too much caution in romance is just as deadly.
2006-06-15 20:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and his getting to know you better, will solve any misconceptions he may have of you. I doubt that he will find anything he doesn't like about you. Just be yourself, he liked you enough to ask you out, so just be you. Don't worry about what he may or not think of you. He'll tell you, or ask you about anything that may bother him.
2006-06-15 18:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! If he likes you it's because of you - don't worry if there are things he might not like. There very well be things that you both don't like about eachother - no one is perfect.
2006-06-15 18:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's not to love? You are a beauty tan to your flaws.
2006-06-15 22:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋