I have a big problem...im 14 ok...well iv been datin this guy for 5 days and on the 3rd he asked me when r relationship could get to making out...i thought he was movin way to fast...so i broke up wit him on the 5th day...be4 we broke up he had asked me if i would date his best friend and if one of my friends would date him..well he was 16 and after i broke up wit him i rembered what he said so i started to date his best friend..but my friend told my 16 year old ex no..but then after i dated my ex's best friend i started to talk to a guy who is 14(my age) and he asked me out...so what do i do...do i stay wit the 15 year old or the 14 year old..i really like the 14 year old and i have met him a couple of times but i have known the 15 year old since kindergarten and im goin into the 9th...both are goin into the 9th...but i like the 14 year old better..i talked 2 him till 3 in the mornin..so who should i date...im confused..plz someone help me...give me advise...anything will help..thanxs
2006-06-15 10:52:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Im 14 and i go 2 a different school then all 3 guys, but the 16 and 15 yearold live on my block and are best friends.. the 14 yearold lives about 15 minutes away..but we talk alot and i asked him his number yesterday on yahoo and when i got on this morning he said sweetie my # is _____....i thought it was so sweet :) (:
2006-06-15 11:02:56 · update #1
both the 14 and 15 yearolds are in my grade
2006-06-15 11:04:10 · update #2
both the 14 and 15 yearolds are in my grade
2006-06-15 11:07:41 · update #3
the 11th answer is stupid none of them are 29 sorry
2006-06-15 11:32:40 · update #4
It's not confusing at all...follow ur heart. If your interested in the 14-year-old the most, then that's who u should focus on.
Lose the 16 year old...he just wanted to "have his way" with u. His best friend, the 15-year-old, is probably just trying to see if he can get further than the 16-yr-old did. I mean, they're best friends, so they tell eachother everything, and "birds of a feather flock together", meaning if ur best friends, u r usually interested/thinking the same things...
The 14-yr-old has nothing to do with the other two. If he's talking to u for so long, then he's obviously interested, and he enjoys ur company. U can't freak eachother over the phone, so I'm sure that he doesn't want "sex" only from u, if not at all.
Whomever u choose, always know that u can't help who ur heart falls for. If u choose one boy and u keep thinkin' about the other one, then u've made the wrong decision. U'll know...just follow ur heart.
2006-06-15 12:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if u like better the 14 year old then u should chose him and leave the 15 year old but do u like the 15 year old cause if u kinda like him u should break up wit him do u talk to ur boyfriend like u talk to the 14 year old?
2006-06-15 11:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by crazygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id stick to guys in your grade and your age because older guys only want you know what... making out is fine for a 14 year old but nothing more. if your not ready to take things further then dont. don't let a guy decide when youre ready and obviously you dont because you did the right thing and broke up with him. but older guys really only want you for sex and stuff. i'd stay away from them personally but just follow your heart if you think hes a good guy then give him a try... there are a million fish in the sea and its not like your gonna marry this guy...
good luck and have a good summer
2006-06-15 10:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by blondecoley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defintly the 14 year old
2006-06-15 10:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by watermel0nbabii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add them up, make love with the 29-year old
2006-06-15 11:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of them deserve you...you're too good for both of them..get back to your books and focus on what will get you a 4 year scholarship...I can't remember which guy in your class can offer you that....
2006-06-15 11:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm im so comfused u went from 16y/o to 15y/o to 14y/o then kindergarden....best advice i could tell u is drop them all and do something thats less mind consuming...
2006-06-15 12:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shameka E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl wanna email me i'm 15
bizzarirealestate@yahoo.com
2006-06-15 11:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Otis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am lost...
I read the story twice and still confused...
2006-06-15 10:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you want to go to high-school with your boyfriend or if you want to go to high-school with you ex. or if you want to go to high-school and have a relationship with someone going to another school.
2006-06-15 10:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by evil_happiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋