This is for married people: how often did you have sex when you were newly weds?

Question

I need serious answers, and the truth please!! I want to know if my husband and I are having 2 much sex, not 2 much, or the normal, I want to know what is the average when you are newly weds...

Answer 1

Hello Bella, the first year of our marriage we made love about 6 days out of each week. Once our Daughter was born it dropped off quite a bit. Now after 11 years of marriage we still make love 2-3 times per week on average. Sometimes more, sometimes less. It doesn't matter how many times you do it. As long as you BOTH are happy, in love and please each other, everything will be wonderful!
Good luck

Answer 2

First, I don't believe there is a "normal" to having sex so long as it doesn't interfere with your health or the rest of you life as to frequency. Now, I'll answer your question.

I've been married three times, at three distinct ages of my life; once in mid-twenties, one time in my late 30s and this last time in my mid-forties. So naturally the frequency would vary.

First marriage, in the first months, at first once a day, then 2 to 3 times a week. Sometimes more when we could fit an afternoon hour in my workday.

Second marriage, initially 2 to 3 times a day, which was usual through the summer, since we both were teachers and on vacation from work. Then it was constant pretty much at 3 times a week for the duration of our marriage of seven years, until the last months when it became barely once a week.

Third marriage, maybe once a day for the first week, then 2 times a week for the balance the first months. My wife and I are a bit mix-matched in our sexual drives.

So, you see, for one individual, there is no norm. Neither is there for anyone else. It's a highly individualistic thing with many variables, regardless what the popular magazines like to say about averages. Hope I haven't given you more information here than you wanted.

Answer 3

We've been married now for 6 yrs and in the beginning it was all of the time at least 3 times a week or more. But as time has went on it has lessened but I value quality over quantity any day. You guys are so young so maybe she's just still a little too wrapped up in her friendships. Just let her know what you're saying on here. We respond very well to honesty put the right way.

Answer 4

It depends on the temperament of the couple. Generally during the initial days, both try to discover the secrets of each other and therefore have sex more than once daily. For the first six months, the couples don't tire. But after that the frequency diminishes and comes to at least once per day. After child birth, the frequency becomes lesser and lesser. However, the husband tries to keep the desire and frequency alive.

Answer 5

well, for the first 2-3 months in our marriage, yes we have sex about 5-6 times a week then after that we have sex about 3 times a week and now we are just married for 2 years believe me we just have sex 1-2 times a week. I need more than that. maybe 3-4 times a week is the best for me, i am 27 and my husband is 43, we only have most of the time nowadays with our marriage, we only have sex once a week. so, the rest of those days left in a week without having sex with him, i just play myself. i just understand that he can't give me as much as i want because he might be so tired from work. anyway, i really do hoping everything will always be ok to that. i really love him and i don't want to cheat with him. he is just too nice and too good husband for me to cheat with.

Answer 6

Average is what is normal in your relationship! The better the sex the more you want it. The problem I read is someone is not wanting to have physical love so frequently. Men need to understand that women have hot and cold perods where they really need it and a time where they just need to be cuddled and held! Communicate!!!!!

Answer 7

Newlyweds? Depends on how long we're talking. First few months, I'd say on average of 5 times a week... maybe less. Tapered off some after that.

Answer 8

For us it was everyday for the first year and a half, and sometimes more than once a day. Excluding that "one" week of the month of course...
Now its like like 4 times a week. We've been married 4yrs now

Answer 9

what is too much sex? i have been married for 10yrs and i still want sex every day. my wife thinks that 2 twice a month is fine. just find a happy medium and it will be fine.