y is it that onli certain people get bullied. i always do and i'm findin it hard to cope. i always get called fat and other names and only one person seems to care and thats my english teacher!! even my form tutor finds it kinda funni. he did used to care about it untill he told us he was resigning. its getting annoying. plz help me. what should i do? why is it only certain people who get bullied? it mainly happens at school. what should i do before i go ova the top?
2006-06-15 10:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by honeyandmustard1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it depends. r they bullying u physically? r they threatening 2 hurt u? Or r they just verbally bullying and calling u names? I've been verbally bullied b4. I've been called a toothpaste eater, ugly, stupid, and stuff like that. Then one guy threatened 2 shoot me. I would say tell your parents or complain 2 the school. Ignoring them may help or hurt depending on the situation. Hang out w/ your friends as much as u can cuz bullies r less likely 2 hurt u w/ a bunch of people around. I know what u r going thru tho:)
2006-06-15 10:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever think about learning to ignore those around you? Especially in school. If you let the people influence you to think bad about yourself and do horrible things then you are totally going to screw up your future. Listen be yourself, don't change, and be mature about the situation. Fighting won't solve anything, they will find out it pisses you off and they'll just come back for more. If they don't like you they are probably missing out on being friends with a great person. And that's their problem. Everyone is a wonderful person and for others it's just harder to realize!
2006-06-15 17:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....... most people bully cuz they feel inferior with them selfs and decided that they will pick on others peoples flaw so maybe no one else will notice. this may sound a little clichey but try to just laugh at urself and it might help. no one wants to pick on somebody unless its going to make them feel bad. and if u can laugh at urself then what fun is it to pick on u ne more? Also dont let it get to u.... thats what bullies look for. and one more thing who cares what others think about u as long as u have friends that love you and u love ur self thats all that really matters!
2006-06-15 17:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by just wnt to b loved!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that is happening too you but look at it this way you are on a computer and they dont know you so bully back and let them know what the say does not bother them. there is this person called craig you should see what he put on my answers bad bad things but i let him know i dont care.at school just do the same.they are just people and they have nothing better to do it make them feel better to hurt people ,so feel sorry for them they will never get any were being like that.they are the ones that feel like nothing so they have to be cruel to others
2006-06-15 17:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes634970 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time they start on you, give the ring leader a nice slap round the face (a punch would be better but you'll get in loads more trouble), that'll embarrass her and i bet they don't do it again. bullies are cowards and they pick on people so that others can't see or realise how pathetic they are.
2006-06-15 18:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the world i live in
if ur not in a gang, or don't have a family member who is
u will be bullied all of ur life, unless u grow up to be a U.S. Marine
2006-06-16 02:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Not-Uh-Fighter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my daughter is 7 and just started wearing a glasses, so i asked her what if some kids make fun of you or ....... and she said i say to them BACK OFF YOU STINKY AND I HOLD MY NOSE TO SHOW THEM THEY ARE STINK. so i was so surprise and she can defends herself very good. so as you and you find something about them and say it to them and eventually they will stop.
2006-06-15 18:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by **B** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋