Why does my husband always have to touch my boobs even if I ma trying to cook and clean always touching them. What should I do
2006-06-15 10:05:53 · 43 answers · asked by hturner4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most men are like that I just say deal with it and if it really bugs you tell him "Well if you want to touch my boobs go head and touch them all you want but you are going to clean and cook"
2006-06-15 10:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by cutey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you prefer him to touch someone elses's boobs?
Take it as a compliment, how about that? He's your husband and there's nothing wrong with him touching any part of your body. if he touches your boobs it means he likes them. Let him enjoy it and enjoy it yourself. If it gets in the way of cleaning and cooking, take a short break and give him a nice quickie, that will calm him down for a little while.
2006-06-15 10:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine does too, he's definitely a boob guy and I've got what he needs so I just let him. Tell him to stop if you don't want him to, sometimes the line needs to be drawn, he is your husband he should respect your wishes. He may go pout for a little while but he should get over it soon. Make sure you fulfill his needs though so he doesn't go elsewhere.
2006-06-15 10:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by pacoficha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are drawn to breasts. A younger man is always thinking about sex anyway. Men tend to have a sexual thought every seven seconds when young. This diminishes to minutes when they get older. Enjoy the attention and bask in the fact that he finds you very desirable.
2006-06-15 10:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have this problem too....until after I had my breast reduction.
Try following him around and grab onto his crotch all of the time when he's trying to do something....
Really make a big deal of it and touch him constantly. Don't give up either! Do it for a week or more!
Good luck!
2006-06-15 10:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bonding with you. If for some reason it bothers you that he is attempting to be close then have him stop by asking him to stop and explain that it is not a pleasant experience for you, nor does it help to create the bond that he seeks. Suggest that he touch you elsewhere or maybe do the dishes in his bonding attempts.
2006-06-15 10:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine does that too but mostly to my butt when im cooking or taken clothes outta the dryer. I asked one day and I got " Cause baby, they are mine and I wanna feel em " Men ? I figure they just want a little rise and they think it will automatically turn us on and we will run straight to the bed room.
2006-06-15 10:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a common way for them to show affection. Sure we would rather the hugs or kisses, but at least it's something. :)
As far as what you can do, turn around and grab his. I guarantee he'll get the point eventually.
2006-06-15 10:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he loves them, you should be glad and enjoy it. A good sex life is worth more than a good meal or a clean house. Really.
2006-06-15 10:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's good he's still attracted to you, but I bet that gets pretty annoying. I'd smack him, playfully, but kind of hard. And then tell him that he needs to not do that so often. Your not a piece of meat, your a human and you deserve respect. If that doesn't work, smack him harder next time.
2006-06-15 10:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋