i know someone who used to be my best friend, but now that she has a boyfriend, she's changed so much and i haven't been talking to her or anything, and all of the girls in my class are like a millimeter away from hating her guts. i've told her almost all of my deepest darkest secrets and i'm afraid that she'll tell her boyfriend about it, and i don't want to be even more of a laughing stock. and i'm afraid that her boyfriend's just using her to look 'cool'. and i don't like her, but i don't want to see her get hurt. how do i tell her that i think that he's using her without her getting even more mad at me. i want to mend our friendship, but i can't. how can i mend our friendship without getting in more fights? Thx sooooo much for your answer.
2006-06-15 09:59:04 · 5 answers · asked by duckgirl@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
also, if u think im jealous, ur also saying that all of the middle school girls r jealous. just fyi
2006-06-15 10:26:54 · update #1
hello iz anyone ther? she's IMing me soon and i dunno if i shuld ignor her or tell her that i think her bf is using her
2006-06-15 11:21:09 · update #2
maybe she should just learn the hard way.....srry but that might be the case.....sooo u can tlk to her.....or just let her live and learn! srry...and good luck!
2006-06-15 10:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by dance_till_u_cant_dance_no_more 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It sounds to me that you are jealous of her bf because she's spending her time with him.People grow & change one day you'll be doing the same thing.How old are you anyway?If I'm wrong and he is using her,just give her support when she gets hurt,that is a true friend.
2006-06-15 17:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i was in the same problem 3 months ago talk to your friend
come close make a schedule where she can hav etime for you and her boyfriend and as for the other girls talk to them make things right again
From advise giver Amber
2006-06-16 17:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kay-Kay!pray4us durring GUSTAV!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mayb shes just over whelmed about a boyfriend....ur lucky my best friend moved away and i miss her dearly. my advice is to hang on to her b4 u lose her and its to late to get her bac.
2006-06-15 17:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Yankees Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad for u!!!!!!!!Try talking to her alone. or write a note or call her.
2006-06-15 17:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋