We are both very dark haired.
A week later, we're foo-l-ing around, and he smells like he's been having sex down there. I'm suspicious now. What other situations have u girls been in w/ somthing like this?
2006-06-15 09:53:52 · 28 answers · asked by Billy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to have his mistress shave - like get w/ the program these days. Hair is out.
2006-06-15 09:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Before you jump to conclusions. Look for the signs of a man cheating before you point fingers, remember when your point the finger at him three are point back at you. So have all the basis covered.
As for the sex smell, and hair. The hair would be the least of my concern, as he may have sit down on the toilet in a unisex bathroom.. But the smell, yep that is a big clue. But sit back and take not of his actions and time he spends away, cell phone, etc. Do surprise visits to work, you might be surprised at what you see !! Best of luck to you and I hope all ends well for you both :)
2006-06-15 09:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about sitting down with him and telling him that you know that he is cheating on you and than watch him turn white like a ghost! After that he will deny and than you give him the evidence which he will end up making some kinda excuse etc.... this is how it will mostly go and than its your call how you want to handle it after that!
See right now you can do 2 things either to not say a word and let it be the way it is, meaning you know he is sleeping around but you don't say anything.
Or you get on your feet and demand an honest answer cuz you do not deserve to be cheated on.
In the end it will come down to either you want to still live with a him give him another chance to improve himself or you prefer to leave!
2006-06-15 10:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's having an affair. There are no other explanations I can come up with for these things. You need to sit him down, tell him what you've seen and smelled, and ask him if he's having an affair. You've been married to him, you should be able to tell when he's lying. If he is lying, don't perpetuate the hurt by lying to yourself.
If he's fooling around, whether he admits it or not, and it doesn't stop, you need to leave. It is bad for your self esteem, and for any children you have (you don't say whether you do or not) to allow infidelity to continue. It is also bad for your health. Who knows what kind of a woman she is, who else she is having sex with, whether he's using a condom . . . Don't subject yourself to AIDS, hepatitis C, and ten thousand other diseases by staying with a man who sleeps around.
Good luck. You'll get through it, however it turns out.
2006-06-15 10:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWow!
I don't think there's an easy way. You could present the underwear with the pubic hair in it to him, and calmly wait for him to answer. Be calm, but watch his eyes and his mannerisms. You'll either learn the truth, or he'll get an academy award for best actor.
Good luck.
Maybe there IS a logical explanation - although I can't think of one just now.
Maybe he got a lapdance or something - has there been a big office celebration or a wedding recently?
2006-06-15 09:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God love you. I would have been all over him by now. You've got to confront him with this. I can only imagine what sort of explanation you're going to get.
When I had reason to believe my ex was out having his own private party I just sat across from him and stared. Stared and stared and stared. Didn't say a word for like ever. He started squirming and getting nervous. I'm like well, want to tell me up front what the hell is going on? He fessed up without me having to accuse him. It only got worse from there. Good luck to you.
2006-06-15 09:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Hub Ub
2016-10-06 03:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by chappel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i would put the underwear WITH THE pubic hairs still intact into a baggy. i would HIRE A PRIVATE DETECTIVE. you can do it quite inexpensively. when i hired one it was $250 for a retainer and $75. per hour. if your husband's cheating it shouldn't cost you much more than one days work for the detective. the best detectives are retired state police DETECTIVES. look for one of those. if you get the PROOF you will take him to the cleaners if you decide to get a divorce.
2006-06-15 10:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it. . . .most likely he'll say its nothing and make up some excuse, but GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT! Most of the time when a woman senses something like that, she's right, and not only do u sense that he's cheating, but you have proof! Oh and maybe you should go get tested, cuz you don't kno if he caught something from that other girl. . .Good luck!
2006-06-15 10:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i had a friend in a similar situatn...she hired some detectors or $900 and well...he was a cheat!...i dont hope the same for u... but its better than confronting him coz u might not b able to trust every word of his n might end up making a fool outta yrself...
2006-06-15 09:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just bring it up and tell him that u found the blonde pubic hairs and were wondering what was going on. you obvissly aren't giving im what he want sso see what it is that he wants from you and then give it to him. Hope you find out good lucj
2006-06-15 09:59:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋