she thinks i'm selfish. but iv'e done so much for her that goes unrecognized. and if i go into detail she gets mad. what's a trick to get her to appreciate me. something i could do to make her not take me for granted?
2006-06-15 09:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by andy-warhol-buyer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hit her with a shovel!
2006-06-15 10:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you didn't mention what all these things you do for her are. A lot of times guys say they do tons for their girl but then why does she think your selfish ? Are you doing the things YOU want to do for her or are you doing the things SHE wants you to do for her ? If she thinks your selfish then I'm sure she feels your taking her for granted. Communication is the key.....and by communication I dont mean spell out all the things you have done for her. Of course she's going to get mad if your giving her a list like your keeping score.
2006-06-15 17:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know a simple easy trick....stop doing things for her....Once you stop doing what you've been doing, then she will see exactly what you do for her and she will come to appreciate it. I have gone through the same thing with my fiance and he felt like he was going unappreciated and he stopped doing so much.It wasnt till then that I realized all that he did. Take a step back and have her look at the bigger picture....there's two people in your relationship, not one!! Good luck and God bless.
2006-06-15 16:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is anything like my husband - just love her & be happy - because it's never going to change!
2006-06-15 17:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a woman. She will allways think she does more and you do less. Learn to live with it.
2006-06-15 16:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋