Tell me wut 2 do right away... I need 2 kno...?

Question

Ok... Tell me y my boyfriend always want 2 go 2 tha club, out 2 eat, and just out period with his boys r wuteva and I have no problem really... but when I go somewhere like 2 the movies r jus out 2 eat with my friends its a big deal and he's all upset and acusing me of meating other guys and stuff..... How do I handle this situation???

Answer 1

He is jealous and insecure. That is HIS problem and it is suffocating. Tell him that you do not intend to have your freedom dictated by him and it has to stop or there can not be happiness in this situation. In the long run it becomes controlling and defeating.

Answer 2

You have an insecure man on your team who is probably stepping out on your and feels if he can control your actions then he will feel less guilty about his. There are plenty of men out there who take the concept head of household to the next level. Dictating and controlling do not fall under that category, therefore, you need to see the big picture in the situation and speak with him. If after a while you see no changes or attempts to change then I believe it is time for you to do for yourself, my any means necessary.

Answer 3

maybe thats because when he's out he's being bad and he's afraid that u'll do the same.
but really you need to sit him down and ask him whats up and tell him how u feel. be honest and communicate those are the wheels that keep a relationship going. ok

Answer 4

Say a prayer to-night thanking your God that he is still your boy-friend and not your husband. He is showing his true colours and this should give you a good inclination of what married life would be like with him. Misery for many years followed by divorce.

Don't even think that you will change him, you will not. Cut your losses and run........................