This friend of mine will not stop bugging me.....She is getting on my last freaking nerve....well HELP ME.....i wanna punch her lights out but i no that will ruin my reputation?!?!
2006-06-15 08:33:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be a btch to her.
2006-06-15 08:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stay away from her, don't answer her calls, tell her to back off that she's getting on your last nerve. the best thing to do actually is not respond at all, right now she is getting a reaction from you and therefore is achieving HER goals, you are actually giving her the power here by letting it get to you. take a deep breath and don't respond, eventually (and it won't take long) trying to get on someones nerves who refuses to let you gets very very boring and she'll move on.
my boys used to get on each others nerves, i would have one poke the other in the chest and tell them if you do nothing that will get very boring very soon and he'll go find something else to do, if you yell at him to stop it or make a fuss or try to smack him he'll just keep coming back at you. think of it in those terms and its very easy to understand, she's essentially poking you in the chest and you are reacting and making it great fun for her. quit playing her game, start playing yours! you can do it, and it will be a handy lesson learned for the rest of your life, one thing that is guaranteed in life is an abundance of annoying people! if you learn now to manage them instead of being managed by them you'll be one step ahead!
2006-06-15 08:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe I'd need more info from you cuz I need to know what she's doing to bug you.....that would completely dictate to me how to handle it! BUT.....I'll give you a scenerio and what I "did" do and maybe it'll help!!!!!!!!!!! This girl from just a whole different PLANET than me was always next to me, everywhere I was in High School......she even at one point, hung out outside my class doors before I'd get done with class!!!!!!!!1 SO.....I just asked her if we could talk outside one day, took her to the curb to sit and discuss what was up......basically I said: "Brandy, I think you're a really nice person and everything like that, and once in a while we can visit and chat and all, but you're following me around like a little puppy!! You're driving me crazy always popping up! You are making me feel like you're stalking me! Can you lighten up a bit and let me come after you a while when I'm in the mood to chat?" She apologized profusely! She told me she just thought I was way cool and she wanted to do whatever to become my best friend! I told her that stalking doesn't make a best friend, it makes a best ENEMY!!!!!! She would wave to me after that, occasionally I'd talk with her, and it was all cool after that!
2006-06-15 08:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by blushboxwine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't punch her lights out, tell her, hey, not today, I just can't take you today! If that doesn't work ask her if she's trying to upset you, but don't wait for the answer just keep right on talking and say, it worked. But don't punch her lights out.
2006-06-15 08:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it that annoys you so much?
Talk to her about it, and see if the two of you can resolve the matter without any physical solutions. LOL Tell her how YOU feel. Try using "I" statements instead of pointing the finger at her and possibly making her defensive. Once a person feels defensive, nothing is going to get resolved.
2006-06-15 08:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_roxy04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell herthat she's annoying and should just stay away from you for a lil' while.....Straight Talk breaks No Friendship....At least you'd be an honest friend. And if she's also a true friend she'll appreciate
2006-06-15 08:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always find that the truth may hurt sometimes but its always the best bet. If you are nice about it and tell her what it is that bugs you. She may not realize she is doing it. If she doesnt stop tell her you cannot hang with her anymore.
2006-06-15 08:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by chasity g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should tell her how u feel! Say that she can be annoying at times and you want her to stop, but you guys are still fwends!!
I had the same problem dont worry!
2006-06-15 08:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Akeelah K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a co-worker CONSTANTLY call me. It bugged the HECK out of me. and she even started driving by my house saying, "I know you're there! Answer the phone!!!" I just kept ignoring her and never answered my door. Eventually she finally got the point.
2006-06-15 08:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU SAY CLEARLY THAT YOU DON'T WANT HER AROUND YOU? Trying to avoid her, she will surely not take the message. I'm sure that truth will make her understand that you want her to stay away from you! BY PUNCHING HER, YOU WILL SURELY LOSE YOR REPUTATION! Trust me girl, it will work for real!!!
2006-06-15 08:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Jetta C Prayer
2006-06-16 10:56:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋