Is it possible for friends to be married?

Question

Friends, who thought that if they never met their soulmates getting married to each other would be cool, but the relationship never got intimate...i married a great woman, she has done so much for me and i love her, we are married now, but problem is we live with her ex (best friend, she said they got married to buy houses and sell, basically as business thing) and that was it.....is this possible? is there anyone else out there who has done this or in a situation like mine? is this normal? my instinct tells me there was more to it, but if i ask she gets upset with me. Am I being too jealous?

Answer 1

Move out immediately. If she loves you, she will move with you. It isn't the ex that is the problem, it is your perception of him that is making a mess. It doesn't matter what she and her ex did, it is none of your business, just as your past is none of her business. Either take it or leave it. I live with my ex, and have a new love living with me...there are no problems in my household (that I am aware of, anyway).

Answer 2

It's possible! But it's not good for You and Her to live in the house with Him... too weird. My ex husband and I are really good friends, and I haven't found anyone ( male) who is/was willing to except him as just a friend. So I gave up the friendship for a real soul mate! It was worth the sacrifice. I'm now happily married again!

Answer 3

I would be uncomfortable with this, and maybe jealous, but if she's always been a good friend to you she's probably on the level. Is living with this person the only means of making money for the two of you? If not, you should talk about moving away and starting off fresh.

Answer 4

you should be friends first, long before u ever thing about marring