i didnt kno wat he looked like wen we 1st started talking but even wen we saw each other and i realized he was not all that cute i still loved him unconditionally. i could care less about how he looks but my friend/family just wont let up. they say i can do better and i kno i can but i love him and he loves me.personally i wouldnt leave him 4 da world. please help!
2006-06-15 08:31:23 · 9 answers · asked by kandy_kiss16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Congrads!! You have matured faster than those around you. (And you have found a good guy, I assume, which is what most of us single girls are trying to find.) So would it be better to date a really cute guy that you don't like or he gets in an accident and he isn't so cute anymore? As you get older I think its less about the outside and more about the inside. So while your friends are chasing the fine ones you chill with your honey and hope that they might find one as good as you.
2006-06-15 08:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by 4whatitsworth 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about what your family/friends think about his looks. If this guy loves and respects you then you should be with him. I'm personally very proud of you for knowing that leaving someone on account of looks is wrong.
One day society will look past the obvious and try not to judge people by only their physical appearance.
2006-06-15 08:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your family and friends that what they are saying is hurting your feelings and if they cared about you they would stop. Looks aren't everything, how he treats you is. Your happy and that is all that should matter to them.
2006-06-15 08:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what your friends think, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As long as he is good to you and loves you who cares what your friends think, Its about you and what makes you happy and if he is what does it for you, stick with him.
2006-06-15 08:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must have some redeeming qualities even if not that handsome. Play-up his strengths and get him to help improve his acceptance by displaying his qualities more
2006-06-15 08:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by huge001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you well and you like him, then tell your friends and family to grow up. If he doesn't treat you well then leave him regardless of what he looks like.
2006-06-15 08:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by truly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends
2006-06-15 08:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to knock it off. If they don't get new friends
2006-06-15 09:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what does it matter what other people think its your happiness that matters
2006-06-15 08:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by candidworker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋