and we're just now filing this year. I feel so confused and wonder if I'll find someone to spend my life with even though I havve two children...is there really someone worth something out there interested in a woman with two kids?
2006-06-15 08:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there are men who don't care about that at all!! yes you will be okay! worry about your kids and there well being, not a man right now. the right one will come along when you least expect it!
2006-06-15 08:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that right now is a time for you to be with your kids and just have fun with them and also be able to spend some time with friends and family so this won't be as hard on you. There will be another guy in your life when the times right. Don't spend a lot of time searching because your kids and well being are more important right now. Make sure though when he does come along that the kids get along with him and you all feel safe and happy when he's around. On another note, make sure all ties are cut off between you and the ex because if you still feel like you should try to work things out it will just be an emotional mess for you and any guy that comes along and that's just not fair to an innocent guy that actually wants to be with you and be an important figure in your kids' lives. Just be wise and know that there is someone out there and they are willing to accept what you bring to the table. Be positive and keep telling yourself that you're doing the right thing because it can only get better!
2006-06-15 15:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by jlcheat2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might find another person, but that guy will probably have to have been divorced also with a kid or 2. I know that if I was ever to get a divorce and if by the chance I was going to get married again, the other women would have kids already or doesnt want any at all.
2006-06-15 15:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course there are...why are you so worried about this? Your life is not built on who you are married to, it is built on you as a person, as a mother, as a individual. There are plenty of people out here. You are going through the Post Divorce Insecurity phase...it will pass fast enough. In the meantime, get your stuff together, consider why the marriage failed, and don't make the same mistake again. Good luck
2006-06-15 15:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hope for us divorced women with children! We are independent, mature and down-to-earth, and yes! you will find someone who loves you and your children.
When I got divorced I was devastated, my selfsteem as very low and I tought that nobody would want me either, But let me tell you.... when I didn;t even expected, not I only got a man...I GOT A REAL GENTLEMAN! He loves me and respects me and he loves my son (he is 8). He plays with him and we all go together as a family. You don;t have to settle for less tahn you deserve jst because you have a kid. Mind you, my b/f is single, never married and childless, not to mention that he is educated, charming, financially viable, respecful and EXTREMELY HOT!
To tell you the truth, I never knew how bad I got it before until I found me a real man and a real example for my son.
Good luck to you.,... you will too be happy!
2006-06-15 15:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your priority should be you kids. Too many guys want to tell a single mom how to raise their kids. It is importantant that you make your kids feel safe and secure. If the right guy comes along you will know it. But I would enjoy the time with them as long as you can. They grow up so fast.
2006-06-15 15:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if 1. you are hot, and 2. kids are well-mannered.
2006-06-15 15:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are as long as ur kids dont run ur life, and are spoiled, when kids are like that , its hard to keep a relationship going
2006-06-15 15:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will find the right person for you....if i wasn't already taken i would be hitting on you.....
2006-06-15 15:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few, most men do not like baggage and th constant crap of you x not paying suppot
2006-06-15 15:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by james p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋