If I'm in the mood and you're in a hurry for me to roll over and go to sleep. Why get angry if I cheat; there are other women out there who seem to want me. I know there could be something wrong and she is working on the problem but when it comes to all my problems my wife wants it fixed right away. If I wait, don't say words like "are you done, I'm tired hurry". That hurts me everytime I hear that!
2006-06-15 08:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Jman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many women get mad because they expect their significant others to accept what they give to them sexually. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Sex is not the most important thing in a loving relationship, but you can be sure that it's the most common reason that most relationships fall apart. I do not condone cheating at all and I think that any man that cheats is a coward and no matter what the woman did (or did not) do that it is the man's fault if he cheats. HOWEVER, I think that more woman need to accept that if you don't give it up, that your man is going to get it somewhere else. So if you are not sexually compatible, leave the relationship now.
2006-06-15 08:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be hurt if your wife tells you these things. If she feels this way she does not have to say them to you. That only destroys the marriage. BUT, having an affair is not going to help anything at all. Tell her how it makes you feel when she says these things to you. Tell her that cheating is on your mind because she pushes you away. Tell her EXACTLY how you feel. Open her eyes! She needs to know that what she is doing is pushing you farther and farther away. If she has problems, then she needs to tell you and you both work on them together, That is what marriage is all about. Please, don't cheat, I did and it destroyed my life. There is no turning back once you do it. Believe me. If you want the marriage to work, get help, if it doesn't move on the way you want it to, then leave it, but don't cheat. Cheating not only hurts the other person, but it WILL tear you up inside for doing it. Best of luck.
2006-06-15 08:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay repeat this question to yourself out loud... Are you saying the girl does not get mad when the guy cheats on her? It doesn't matter who cheats, if someone gets cheated on they are usually upset. Now if your guy cheated on you and that it was okay but got mad when you cheated on him then you deserve each other if you both think it's okay to cheat...
2016-03-27 04:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak up my man! the longer you hold it in the more reasons you will find to cheat. not that cheating is bad, but that your marriage is going nowhere. you have to fix things in the long-term, looking for affection only fixes your needs for the short-term and leads you away! she has to know what's going on, sex is bad, so what! speak up and get some loud discussions, small fights underway, some heat never hurts a relationship, it all has to be out in the open! never threaten though that you will go cheat otherwise, find some real problems and tackle them for real! heated conversations when settled often end up in the best sex you will ever have, trust me.
2006-06-17 12:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by OnceAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds selfish. It seems like she has the power to dictate the terms. Result - you lose. Take her out to dinner, to bars, start let her see you looking at other women. She will get mad. She will confront you. Tell her that it is natural especially when your needs are not met. All you did was look, your relationship can recover from that. She may get the point that she is not the only game in town and change her ways.
2006-06-15 15:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the answer. SHe'll eventually find out about it and divorce you. Then you can give up 50% of all your marrital assets and 20-30% of your pay depending on the # of kids you have. CHeck out the website: http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
It can give you some insight.
2006-06-15 11:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did someone say a wife should do her job as a good homemaker OMG what century are you living in? Because this jerk is insensitive to his wife, did you ever question if you are satisfying her needs? Marriage is about communication, your on Yahoo asking strangers about your sex life talk to your wife.
2006-06-15 08:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bassetlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women just need to buckle up and do their parts as a wife. If a woman does her part as a good homemaker he'll have no reason to cheat!
2006-06-15 08:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the easy way out and that doesn't solve the problem you have at home. You have to communicate your feelings and work it out. Try marriage counseling.
2006-06-15 08:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG me and you need to talk. I have a support group on yahoogroups called betrayedandhurt and its for women who are surviving their divorce from cheating husbands. I have some questions for you!!!!!!!
2006-06-15 08:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by anginfla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋