that i really like chicks! I get so hot thinking/looking at them. But i love my boyfriend! I have never been with a woman and don't know what to do... I have liked woman for like 5 years and have never tryed it. Any advice on what to do???
2006-06-15 07:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by Kelley 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hmm. not sure what to say. I am in same sitution as you. I like ladies too but never really tried openly. I flirted some though. I just told my husband I like girls and he didnt care but we do disagree on what type we like. It's nothing against him its just been there many years. I hinted him for 7.5 years but he didnt get the hint just thought i was a cool lady.
2006-06-15 08:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You say you love your boyfriend but you are lusting after women. But you know what? It doesn't really matter if the object of your lust is a man or a woman, this is seriously disrespecting your boyfriend and your relationship. First of all, if this is a serious question then please do your boyfriend a favor and be honest about your feelings for women. Even though liking women for 5 years sounds a bit sketchy. Everyone has fantasies but not everyone has to act on them. Only you can tell if it means more than that to you. If you are having a true sexual crisis then he should know the truth and if exploring your attraction to women is what you want to do then end the relationship with your boyfriend. It's the best thing for the both of you.
2006-06-15 18:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that honesty is the most important thing to hear in all of these responses - if you are not sure what you want, it won't help you to sneak behind your boyfriend and "try out women". Having been married (to a man), I can say that the struggle to be honest with myself, and everyone else was a long process and one that was complicated by not being honest. If you care about your boyfriend, then choose honesty - it will make whatever you do easier in the long run. I would also suggest looking into some area support groups or resources for someone that you can talk to that can help you explore your thoughts and feelings from an objective perspective.
2006-06-15 16:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lovin' Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to approach it away from your boyfriend. Go out by your self or with some of your girlfriends. Have a ladies night out and bring the subject up. Has anyone ever felt attracted to another female& what did you do or not do? You will only regret what you have never tried or asked. Possibilites another friend has had the same fealings and you can talk to her about it latter how she approached it. My first time was at a sorority party with a 5min closet game. All of us were blindfolded including guys and we all drew names and we went in the closet not knowing if it was another guy or gal. I had another female, and it just clicked.
2006-06-15 15:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have to sleep with a woman to know I was gay, I just had to be honest with myself. You may be bi, or lesbian. If you are bi, that doesn't mean you have to cheat on your boyfriend to find out. However, if you feel as though you need to have a sexual experience with another woman, then tell your boyfriend. Either way its best to be honest.
2006-06-15 15:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you feel complete or is this curiosity always on your mind? Why have you not asked her out yet? I think you should be open and honest with him...I mean, you've been together for 2 years...so, why keep secrets if you want to have an open and honest, good working relationship?
Good luck!
2006-06-15 15:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Alot of straight guys like that kind of stuff. There girlfriend with another girl. It turns them on. Just keep him apart of any girl on girl action and he will probably be one happy stud. Hope that helps
2006-06-15 15:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by CitizenV 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thank u should hav s** wit a gurl and hav s** wit yo boyfriend and then if u like the gurl break up wit boyfriend but make sure u make the right choice because if u choose gurl u hav no d**k to f**k
2006-06-15 22:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by mizjayda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you want to try it or not. I dont know whats holding you back anyways. Its a part of finding yourself and asking yourself if you want to try it or if you want a lifestyle of it.
2006-06-15 15:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what comes natural.
But be honest with the BO.
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-15 15:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Biteme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋