He has been married before and he say's that it is pointless in getting married again am i wasting my time?should i find another man? Is there something wrong with this.
2006-06-15 07:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by aliciadancer17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his ex-wife broke up with him....
2006-06-15 07:49:59 · update #1
I you want to get married. I think it's time he left. He's been hurt once and is making you pay for the mistakes of his past. If he can't get over it and be with you you are wasting a lot of time.
2006-06-15 07:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Will Never Get Married Then Why You With Him..??If You Want To Make A Family And Have Kids And Husband I Think You Wasting Your Time With Him..If You Want Just A Boy/f He Can Be But,Not A Husband So Move On..Good Luck :)
2006-06-15 15:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, you should ask yourself some question and answer the question yourself. Are you willing to stay with a man who will never marry you and will be using you for the rest of your life?
Please you have to let him know that you can't continue like that, you can only remain as friends ok, so you be able to get you rightful husband.
2006-06-15 15:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by maryprecious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his word for it. He will never marry again. If you want to get married, move on now. Things are not going to change. Stop wasting precious time...you will never get it back.
2006-06-15 14:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every ones emotions and emotional capability's should all be put in perspective...Give him time to SEE if he wants to marry again, AFTER you have SERIOUSLY talked about it and let him know your feelings THEN let him make a decision IF hes still not interested AND you see yourself in the whole ring thing( which i don't) find another guy!!
2006-06-15 16:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by v_kalbus@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of "I'll never will marry again" didn't you understand?
Dear, this is a warning, not a challenge. Take it for what it is.
If you are longing for marriage, then don't wait up on this one and find someone who is emotionally available for a commitment.
Good luck
2006-06-15 15:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not punish you for anything his ex wife did or whatever. You need to be happy to. Don't waste your life being unhappy, if you want to be married and he doesn't, it wasn't meant to be. You'd be better off as friends.
2006-06-15 14:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if you love him and if you want to be with him forever or not. Getting married is just the signing of a contract. Who needs a contract to be happy? If you love him, just enjoy the time you have with him. Don't sweat the paperwork...
2006-06-17 15:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by spain_105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, personally, I wouldn't marry a divorced man. He promised someone "till death do us part." He broke up with her before one of them died. Why do you think it would be any different with you?
2006-06-15 14:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is what you want for your future, cut your losses and get on with your life.
if you are ok with a relationship that doesn't have that level of committment, then stay. But I sense you find marriage important..you can't change him. move on.
2006-06-15 14:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋