Ok my bf wants to finger me its not that i dont want to its just i dont know wouldnt that be weird? I really love him ALOT but i really dont know?? PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-15 07:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
speak to an older brother or sister, as chances are they have been through your stage. Do not be rushed into this sort of thing.
2006-06-15 07:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mmmm how old are you? and how old is ur bf? If he is asking to explore you on a different level than your use to. You can say no until your ready to be touched like that.. If you bf really truly loves you like he states, he will wait until your ready, he will respect your needs and wants, you don't have to change your own values to plz the next. WAIT UNTIL YOUR READY!! when you start playing there is a whole lot more going to come behind it. Never be pressured in doing something your not ready for...
2006-06-15 07:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for "full contact" sex? Because if you allow him to do this...his engine and yours will be so warmed up, you may be going in a slippery slope that you and him (him particularly) cant stop.
This is what boys(men) do in order to have sex...they know once you start this...you wont stop until after you have gone "all the way". clever . . .your boyfriend.
Unless you are an exception to the human race with exceptional will power to stop when you need to . . .
2006-06-15 07:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by samchaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. You are not ready for any type of sex and fingering is a form of sex. Wait til you are older. You won't be sorry.
2006-06-15 07:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really that wierd but if it makes you uncomfortable then dont let him pressure you into it.. if he loves you too he will understand and get off your back about it until your ready to try thoses type of things with him
2006-06-15 07:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by team_ank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny..you sound very young..
don't get pressured into doing something you don't want to do. If he feels the same way about you he should not pressure you and you will be fine.
2006-06-15 07:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to play with youre puddin so he can bragg to his friends and tell them about how it smells boys are stupid every thing they do is too show offso they look cool and make you look bad i say dont
2006-06-15 07:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by kirkinoutnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you refuse to do it that won't mean that you don't love him...you can do other things with him. if you feel uncomfortable with it don't do it, and don't do it just to please him.....your feelings matter too. Don't let him pressure you....tell him that if you say not it's not because you don't love him but because you don't feel comfortable with that...
2006-06-15 07:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him. if you feel weird you are not ready for sex, and that is what it will lead to. Tell him to "finger" himself.
2006-06-15 07:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋