its like this last 2 years my wife deleivered a a baby boy in our culture that is islam she has to rest for 40 days well since it was her first baby i was forced ,told to,had to take her to her parents home while she was there they kind of brainwashed her against me and they treated me badly we also oneday quarelled very badly between me and my mother in law cause she wanted to dictate on me how to feed my son and eventually they won me now my wife is expecting another baby she says that she has to go to her fathers home on my side i dont want i want her to go to her home i am ready to put two maids at her service just to take care of her and the baby as for the first son i will put a guardian to look after him all this cause i dont want to create any friction between me and them also i believe she is no more there concern she is my concern they aint going to pay the hospital charges .....
2006-06-15 07:04:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her & ur family exactly what u wrote. tell them that u want to help take care of ur baby. i think they will understand if u tell them how u feel and why this is important to u.
2006-06-15 07:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good communicaton between you and your wife is very important. Telling her your thinking is very important and listen to her thinking as well. Most woman will have despression after birth, so she needs your care and your time being with her. On the other hand, after delivery, woman won't need to have a too long rest for the body.
Joyce
2006-06-15 12:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by joyce_lovely_gir1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋