I can't seem to get the fire lit..if you know what I mean. Me & my bf used to be so into each other. Could it be that we had a child together only after knowing each other for 1 1/2 mnths? Probably a stupid question but I need help in resolving this matter. I am still really attracted to him but it seems as if there is something holding both of us back. I can't tell you the last time he told me he loved me or gave me a kiss. We fight alot but not in front of our child. We are both really good parents, but as a couple we suck. Any advice on how to get him to "see" me again? PLEASE HELP
2006-06-15 07:03:54 · 10 answers · asked by babyruch03 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't over exert yourself trying to get his attention and don't unfairly judge yourself. I always say be logical and be yourself. You guys did move quickly / add on to the fact that both of you are now parents and that takes a great deal of energy and attention. Talk to him, ask the questions you want to know the answers to,even if it hurts. Ask him if he wants to be in the realtionship or not. Hopefully everything works out for you. If not, don't worry, you will find love again.
2006-06-15 07:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well speaking from experience yall both have to wanna make it work. If yall to want to be together then try doing things both together as a family and together as a couple. Go out on dates again, have a quiet dinner and just try to make the best of it! Good luck hope everything works out for you!
2006-06-15 07:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably isn't what you want to hear, but maybe it's just not meant to be. If you were supposed to be together, you would/will be. As long as he's in the childs life maybe being apart isn't such a bad thing.
2006-06-15 07:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by lojack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think im having the same problem, however we dont have children. but i am into him and wed still be lovable and everything if only HE was...i dont know.. maybe its him, maybe its time tyo move on because i do belive in love and romance. i believe that life CAN be like the movies. good luck
2006-06-15 07:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull a Monica on em. That should get his attention
2006-06-15 07:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by jgcii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you have a baby its tough. if you think it will work, hold on tight and go through the ride. if its just really distant, and just have seperate lives, move on.....
2006-06-15 07:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by ckck1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it, you will just be miserable with eachother. Sometimes things just don't work out. It happens.
2006-06-15 07:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anybody do anything. You guys have more than likely grown apart.
2006-06-15 07:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling? a lame answer but sometimes it helps
2006-06-15 07:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by luvmadukes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMPRESS HIM.
2006-06-15 07:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by heena.rocks.ur.socks. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋