Me an my fiancee have been together along time and i love him, but i keep getting a feeling that somethings not right like i'm losing him or something........ We are always really busy i work 6 days a week and in my free time im doing my college work so communication only happens just before we go to sleep an thats when i tell him bout my worries. We dont even have sex much anymore i'm never in the mood and i make excuses due to all the work i have to do. And i'm really worried about loosing him what should i do???????????
2006-06-15 06:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we both work hard he work 5 days i work six a week. i try my hardest to sit down with him but we find it hard due to lack off money to pay the bills. Am i gonna push him away and make him more interested in his mates and work????
2006-06-15 06:39:58 · update #1
Like right now hes watching football which he dont like much an im upstairs doing my college work. knowing that i will be working 12hours tomorrow so he wont see me till after 9PM
2006-06-15 06:46:18 · update #2
yes, you are right to be worried about losing him. if you want an honest advice then you should spend more time with him. i mean, not to quit your job or something like that, but simply to balance your professional life with your personal life.
think that he needs you as well as you need him. you have to reconsider your priorities.
2006-06-15 06:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest your oth pushing eachother away and relationships are hard enough as it is the last thing you need, is not been able to communicate with eachother thats the key thing in a relationship, i know its hard when your studying and working but he is a part of your life as well so you have to make time for eachother, take a time out for a bit go out and have a meal or do something you both enjoy like maybe a holiday, things like this will bring you closer together. you've got to work hard in a relationship there not gonna work themselves you need to get the passion back into your relationship. Good Luck :D
2006-06-15 14:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard enough without starting it out with all these problems. You have to stop and make a considerable effort to work on your relationship. If you can't do that now, you certainly won't be able to once you are married and have kids. If you aren't willing to put your relationship first, then maybe you aren't ready to get married.
2006-06-15 13:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to try and spend time with each other and talk about your problems pretty quick, or else the p roblem will get bigger and the distance between will be so great that the only answer will be to split up, if you love him like you say you do, its now time to get it sorted before its too like, make a big effort.
2006-06-16 05:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and you will no longer have to worry about losing him!
seriously though....trust your instinct, if it doesn't feel right then it probably isn't so deal with it now!
2006-06-15 13:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by aintgotnotime4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make time to speak to him i think ther are a lot of feelings there but you really need to talk and work through lots of things
2006-06-15 17:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are to please our husbands, and therefore just give it up.
im being serious not like 2x a day maby just every other day
2006-06-15 13:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by jesus_freak_forever3days2grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋