Does anyone else out there find James Blunt's song "You're Beautiful" to be creepy?

Question

Is it just me...or does he sound like some kind of perverted stalker?

Also...what plan exactly? He says "I won't lose no sleep on it, cuz I've got a plan"....then later...."I saw your face, in a crowded place, and I don't know what to do" Not much of a plan, if you ask me.

Then the ultimate creepy line "Well I don't know if I'll see you again...but...we shared a moment that will last 'till the end"....weird, huh?

I've heard that this song is all the rage as the first dance song at weddings...That makes sense...a guy...trying to steal another guy's girl....Wow, talk about committment...

Answer 1

To me it sounds like a guy who sees a beautiful or alluring (guys are not always attracted because of facial beauty, sometimes it's an attribute that intrigues them) woman and maybe they made eye contact which will last til the end(he will never forget that moment) and he is determined to find her again and establish a relationship. i.e.; love at first sight. You never get over that. I know, I'm still in love with someone who is a total jerk and purposely protect myself from him because I know he is badly socially handicapped and doesn't know how to carry on a relationship, nor will he let me teach him. This song reminds me of him and makes my heart ache.

And James Blunt is sexy! Nothing creepy about him. HE reminds me of a drummer I once dated. (Not the same guy as above.) Another case of broken heart, but for different reasons.

So I guess you could say this song reminds me of heartbreak.

And it's SEXY. Men are the pursuers, women the object of pursuit. This is primal and is the way men think. Get used to it ladies. Men want someone worth pursuing, catching and then protecting and providing for --- the strait ones anyway.

Answer 2

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She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.

She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.

Answer 3

yes I also thought it was creepy. Not as creepy as that "fly on the wall" song from Clay Aiken. that was a stalking song if I ever heard one.

If I was invisible
Then I could just watch you in your room
If I was invisible
I'd make you mine tonight
If hearts were unbreakable
I saw your face in the crowd
I called out your name
You don't hear a sound
I keep tracing your steps
Each move that you make
Wish I could be what goes through your mind

NOW THAT'S SOME CREEPY STUFF!!!!!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I know, I saw him on a morning show and all I could think was, 'I wonder if the poor girl he considered stalking is like, "Hey Honey, there's the creepy guy from the subway that wouldn't stop staring at me"'!

Answer 6

Well, from that perspective it is creepy. But in general i think its a sweet song about a guy suffering from affection at first sight.

Answer 7

I thought it was about suicide at first. Then I heard him say he was inspired when he saw his ex-girlfriend on the subway with another man and their eyes met and he felt at that moment they shared a lifetime together. It kind of took the mystery away.

Answer 8

I love the song and his voice I just don't like the video - that's creepy.

Answer 9

Not only creepy but dull too. Can't stand it for more than 30 seconds

Answer 10

YES!!! thank you! girls love the song because they hear the words "You're beautiful". It's so weird because it's just some random girl he saw on a damn subway...